I dont understand what's happening with me !

slimshady

New Member
I was absolutely convinced I had PIED. I have been masturbating to porn for many years. I am 35 yrs old now, married and have trouble with my wife. Levitra helps, but I just know my head is messed up from porn. Every time I can't keep it up or can't finish it messes with my head and it gets worse. I read about the Reboot and started it a week and a half ago. However, never experienced a flatline; in fact, I started getting spontaneous erection during the day and morning wood by the third day. Well, my wife and I get to messing around one night and we had sex, solid boner, all the way, and I finished ! I did not touch it, and did not fantasize or anything of the sort. I was surprised but pleased. After that night, I've had a real bad case of blue balls. I am thoroughly confused right now. Do I have PIED ? Where is the flatline ? Why blue balls, why now ?
Can anyone help me understand ?
 

dc6

Member
You don't hit flatline right away. Sometimes it's a couple weeks in and I think I've read about some guys getting it as late as 60 days in. Your experience isn't terribly uncommon. I was able to MO without porn or fantasy about a week into my reboot before i read how that was generally discouraged (then I bugged out and wondered if I messed up). I hit my flatline after 2-3 weeks.

As far as the "blue balls" feeling, could be your brain wanting a porn fix. One of the reasons it is recommended to go a while without orgasm on a reboot is because sometimes having and orgasm can be a trigger.
 
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