In need of advice on rewiring

No.turning.back

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My reboot status: I'm 27 and currently in my 5th week of rebooting (early, I know). Been watching porn since 14/15 and have never been able to get it up to fantasy alone. in the bedroom my results were mixed at best. Since rebooting, Urges to watch porn are not really there, and horniness/libido was VERY present and strong until this week, when it's a bit less. I have yet to experience morning wood since starting the reboot (except maybe once) and no wet dreams...but I've never had a wet dream (ever).

My question/dilemma: There is a girl I'm interested in, met her through friends. If it leads to anything I'm unsure how to approach intimacy while rewiring, Should I be honest and show her Yourbrainonporn.com? I get that most women would like men that do not watch porn....that's obvious. But revealing something so sensitive in nature is daunting. Also, as mentioned, we have mutual friends. Any opinions  or advice would be appreciated. I've seen tips saying to tell her you want to take it slow, or you're undergoing treatment that has side effects....but assuming this might be a relationship and not a fling, I'm not sure making something up is ideal.
 

Eidan

Active Member
man we can't really help you there, it s gotta to be your call, depending on how much you trust her and feel confortable with her. While rewiring anyway take you time it should help the process, really enjoy the moment.

Regarding telling her:
_ if you lie, you need to be congruent and to have a good memory
_ if you tell the truth, assume she will tell it at least to her best friends. If I want an information to spread, I tell a girl I need her to keep a secret ^^

it's you call, but there are a lot of very nice girls out there who can be reliable and nice enough to understand the situation.

 
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