alalex775
Member
Hi Everyone,
I've been using porn for about 20 years now more or less. I just turned 31 a few months ago. I've been in recovery for about three and a half years now. Although I've made good progress, I'm still having trouble with relapsing. I'm writing this post because I feel a discouraged now about where I am now. I want to get rid of my porn use because it drains me of my energy. I hate this but It's been so hard for me to let this go. I had multiple, several month streaks during my recovery, however, they always end in relapses. At this point, I am just tired of white knuckling it, I am tired of fighting it. I just want this to be over. I hate that I am using porn to cope with stress and everything else. I've read YBOP and Wack several times and applied the teachings in my recovery. Porn blockers have not been helpful as porn is everywhere, and there always seems to be a way around internet filters (k-9, freedom, etc..). I am just tired and I feel hopeless at this point. I am sick and tired of draining my energy and motivation on porn. I am tired of expending my energy on fighting this. I am just tired.
I'm sorry to dump this on you. I feel pretty low/depressed now because of my relapse today. I'm happy that I got the above off my chest. I'm going to rest/relax rest of today and pick up the fight again tomorrow. Tomorrow is a new day. I will overcome this.
I've been using porn for about 20 years now more or less. I just turned 31 a few months ago. I've been in recovery for about three and a half years now. Although I've made good progress, I'm still having trouble with relapsing. I'm writing this post because I feel a discouraged now about where I am now. I want to get rid of my porn use because it drains me of my energy. I hate this but It's been so hard for me to let this go. I had multiple, several month streaks during my recovery, however, they always end in relapses. At this point, I am just tired of white knuckling it, I am tired of fighting it. I just want this to be over. I hate that I am using porn to cope with stress and everything else. I've read YBOP and Wack several times and applied the teachings in my recovery. Porn blockers have not been helpful as porn is everywhere, and there always seems to be a way around internet filters (k-9, freedom, etc..). I am just tired and I feel hopeless at this point. I am sick and tired of draining my energy and motivation on porn. I am tired of expending my energy on fighting this. I am just tired.
I'm sorry to dump this on you. I feel pretty low/depressed now because of my relapse today. I'm happy that I got the above off my chest. I'm going to rest/relax rest of today and pick up the fight again tomorrow. Tomorrow is a new day. I will overcome this.