Hey so since I stopped PMOing, the biggest change has been that I am now realising how utterly saturated our society has become with images that objectify women.
Not only this, but with every day that goes by it seems that cravings to look at porn subs get stronger and harder to control. And every day it seems that there is one more part of my life I need to shut out in order to succeed.
I live in South Korea and there is a popular online shopping site here. I have been doing a lot of shopping lately since I just moved into a new apartment and needed some stuff. But holy shit! Every time I opened that site it was like water torture not to succumb to the pictures of beautiful women sporting their yoga pants, shorts skirts, leggings etc. My brain kept telling me it wasn't porn and it would be ok to click and even search out more pictures by scrolling up and down the page. When at one point I actually did find myself getting my dopamine hit from these pictures I snapped out of it and realised I had to reset my counter. (Also I was really confused cause I still wanted to keep the days that I hadn't PMO'd but it wouldn't let me....)
What should I do at this point? I feel like my brain is craving dopamine so much now that it is seeking out even the slightest manifestations of sexual novelty in order to score just a little hit of dopamine. It was easy to cut out porn sites, but now I'm starting to catch myself clicking on girls on facebook. And even real women are causing this reaction in my brain now.
These kinds of things were normal before I quit porn. I didn't think they were bad at all. But now I'm aware of them, and that is coupled with my growing dopamine withdrawl.
Any coping strategies beside quitting the internet altogether?
Thanks all!
Not only this, but with every day that goes by it seems that cravings to look at porn subs get stronger and harder to control. And every day it seems that there is one more part of my life I need to shut out in order to succeed.
I live in South Korea and there is a popular online shopping site here. I have been doing a lot of shopping lately since I just moved into a new apartment and needed some stuff. But holy shit! Every time I opened that site it was like water torture not to succumb to the pictures of beautiful women sporting their yoga pants, shorts skirts, leggings etc. My brain kept telling me it wasn't porn and it would be ok to click and even search out more pictures by scrolling up and down the page. When at one point I actually did find myself getting my dopamine hit from these pictures I snapped out of it and realised I had to reset my counter. (Also I was really confused cause I still wanted to keep the days that I hadn't PMO'd but it wouldn't let me....)
What should I do at this point? I feel like my brain is craving dopamine so much now that it is seeking out even the slightest manifestations of sexual novelty in order to score just a little hit of dopamine. It was easy to cut out porn sites, but now I'm starting to catch myself clicking on girls on facebook. And even real women are causing this reaction in my brain now.
These kinds of things were normal before I quit porn. I didn't think they were bad at all. But now I'm aware of them, and that is coupled with my growing dopamine withdrawl.
Any coping strategies beside quitting the internet altogether?
Thanks all!