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maddscottm
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Hi All,
So I spent the last 11 weeks training hard for a fitness test which I take this week. I did the workout last week as a trial run, and may I say, I fucking killed it! ;D
During those 11 weeks, I was also actively engaged in finding new sex partners through a couple hook up sites, which I did many many times. Like P, that experience is both somewhat thrilling (for the short term) and deeply empty and sad.
So now i am going to take it day by day without P and with no hook up site activities.
Briefly, married guy here, late forties, great sex life with my wife, but needed adventure. Prior journal was "the fight for my life". Initial attraction to porn was due to the desire to feel like other men (have a post on that too). Led to deep depression, isolation, stagnation at work, etc.
I figure I can be a voice here for others who are struggling with sexual appetites that are self-destructive.
Scott
So I spent the last 11 weeks training hard for a fitness test which I take this week. I did the workout last week as a trial run, and may I say, I fucking killed it! ;D
During those 11 weeks, I was also actively engaged in finding new sex partners through a couple hook up sites, which I did many many times. Like P, that experience is both somewhat thrilling (for the short term) and deeply empty and sad.
So now i am going to take it day by day without P and with no hook up site activities.
Briefly, married guy here, late forties, great sex life with my wife, but needed adventure. Prior journal was "the fight for my life". Initial attraction to porn was due to the desire to feel like other men (have a post on that too). Led to deep depression, isolation, stagnation at work, etc.
I figure I can be a voice here for others who are struggling with sexual appetites that are self-destructive.
Scott