NO FAP , NO PMO during the rest of 2015 ? it's Possible ( second reset )

Hi everybody ,

I am new to the forum and I wish everyone good luck in their weaning and I hope you will support me you too: D (and sorry for my bad English in topic)

I currently have in 21 years and I suffer a lot because I'm addicted to pornographic sites and webcam amateurs, but I handed aware of the problem until this age. But not only porn, masturbation also




My beginning was when I was a teenager, when I was 14, I stumbled by accident on a pornographic piece, I saw and it pleased me a lot, then I have not tried yet on porn; one day of speaking classmates porn, they said a site I'm saved, I visited this website and that was the big step this accursed addiction,
I almost saw all the videos on this site and also at the age of 16 I began to discover what is masturbation, at first it was a remarkable feeling, I liked to masturbate before sleep without seeing porn,
just by imagination or fantasize about a girl I saw in my class, after that it is developed, I began to masturbate by seeing porn and parallel I searched on google is that masturbation is a danger or no, I always fell on posts like "this is normal" "no danger" etc ..
With time, I started downloaded pornographic films and see the sites of webcams amateurs,

but I never had sex with a girl, even flirting, besides, I have no friends to go out, I'm the one who was rather addicted to video games, I never had a girlfriend throughout my life, even to this day ... it can be because of my ugliness, or because of my addiction


After this list and exactly when I turned 19, I started to be aware that porn, masturbation is not good, the porn is not the reality, I tried many times to stop this bad habit, porn, I have not succeeded, I can just resist three days, but masturbation, I managed to resist masturbation without 40 days after it was the new drop
Since that age, I can not sleep without thinking about the porn ,, or an erotic scene, I can not control that, and when I wake up, well I happen to erect and directly I began to jerk me a little, just without ejaculating movement


Well, I 21 years, I very much regret what happened Me, I made a small balance between ME BEFORE AND PORN MASTURBATION and ME AFTER THIS HELL, I'm more active, I more successful in my school with above average good the last three years after my degree, I have no desire to play sports, attend afraid of people, afraid to seduce a girl, no desire to achieve something etc .. .

I started a withdrawal in August and I managed not to masturbate during 59 days ((03/08 - 02/10) without PMO) and I cracked 3 October, I was out in an evening with students and I had a lot of rakes and I was very motivated to seduce a girl, I'm a little too exaggerated during the evening and when I got home I made the mistake ; I dared to see hentai movie then I followed a lot of porn videos and masturbation as after that I felt a relief, it's commme if I had a pressure and after masturbation I relieved, but Sunday morning I felt sorry again, worth having again reviewed the porn and masturbation


; I handed the counter to zero and I'm in my fourth day, I set a goal not to M and P do not see during the rest of 2015; it's hard, but when I see that I have succeeded 60 days, so I have to push even more, but I'm determined to succeed this goal

Welcome to the forum tyobes7!

I'm impressed that you have achieved 59 day and 40 day streaks already! Enough proof of willpower to complete your goal of getting rid of PMO for the rest of 2015 for sure.

I have experienced often the same story as the one you describe with the girl you tried to flirt with. You try to seduce a girl at a party. Things don't go as hoped. Suddenly you feel discouraged and depressed.

That is one of the most dangerous moments, when we are under stress or unhappy. Our true will is put to the test. We are in front of a mirage: PMO will make us feel better, PMO will take care of our problems. But reality then shows us once again that it only makes us feel worse.

One method that has saved me a few times is to occupy my mind with something else (go for a walk, talk to a friend/family, exercise, read a book). It is safer to stay away from the smartphone, laptop or TV.

If nothing else works, this website helped me for emergencies: http://emergency.nofap.com/

Good luck and let's get rid of this porn crap!

you're right in everything you say: D

The 59 days I spent were during the holidays, and now since I'm studies quee I think this will help me to occupy my mind

I see you're in weaning, you just started and I wish you good continuity, and also I wish you better exploit my 59 days: D

PS: thank you for the site, I find really useful: D

Hey, man, 59 is pretty good result.
And also it's great that you didn't give up after relapse!
What helps me a lot is clearly understand and repeat to myself that unpleasant things will happen and PMO isn't an option, it will makes things even worse. When we know our triggers, we can
prepare to handle it and avoid relapsing. Rehearse it in a mind and dodge the bullet next time.
So yeah, good luck man, you're doing the well job

Thanks wwwack for your support

Past 10 days, always in the right way, I filled my free time learning a new language and also sport; without forgetting that the pace of studies is mounted I dedicate more time to my studies, which helps me a lot during the day and also what kept me from coming here in the forum, but at night when I try to sleep I can not seem to try to stop my imagination to the s * x with a girl; it's not like in my day when I was watching porn when I was sleeping I fantasized about a porn star but now during my weaning I think when I try to sleep at a normal girl I hope to share my feelings ;
you've already gone through that stage?

12 days, still in weaning, I feel good especially with a workout yesterday and this morning jogging

Hi everybody ,

I am in the midst of preparing for exams, and suddenly I got tired and I saw a small excerpt from a erotic film, I do not even remember how I made it, I was masturbated and then I feel the regret is the deuxi?mme time I cracked since August (the first was after 60 days, and now after 26 days)
So reset counter to zero and I hope I'll hold my withdrawal during the rest of 2015

I'm sorry my poor participation in forums, I am in full period of study, I hope to see your review of my case and messages encourageans

Day 3:

I feel a little better, the temptations are low but I keep my eyes from my goal, I'm in the midst of exams and I try my best to stay focused and believe in my mind that this withdrawal is good even to resume concentration that I have lost over the years

Hey man!

That's my goal too! free from PMO for the rest of 2015.

It's been my 2015 new year resolution to quit PMO but so far nothing good. I do really hope it works this time at least for the last 2 months of 2015 I can proudly say I don't touch PMO at all.

We are in this together!

All the best!

Cheers,
Andy

DAY 4 :

I had a very busy day so it was a good thing I had not thought about masturbation or the po, when I wanted to sleep I had the need to masturbate but I refrained and hop I put between my eyes my goal

DAY 6 :

the temptation to to masturbate is very strong, I certainly have no intention of seeing the P but yes masturbation; hope I do not break my weaning yet