hello everyone,
so i have been for the last 3 months in a very beautiful relationship with this man that told me in the early times of our relationship that he used to be a porn addict and that he had been recovering. He told me about this forum and tried to explain me different stuff.
He is out of his flatline for about 2 years now and our sexual life is great in fact.
still he has very disturbing mood swings and im not really sure how to behave: is it about porn addiction or just a normal mood swings? am I just a part of his recovery process or does this relation means something for him?
Well , i don"t want to seem selfish but im really scared of being just a stage in his recovery process and rewiring, because I do really like him and im getting more attached day by day.
how should I behave in a way that I can help him in this experience and in the same time trying to build a sustainable relationship and not just a recovering tool?
so i have been for the last 3 months in a very beautiful relationship with this man that told me in the early times of our relationship that he used to be a porn addict and that he had been recovering. He told me about this forum and tried to explain me different stuff.
He is out of his flatline for about 2 years now and our sexual life is great in fact.
still he has very disturbing mood swings and im not really sure how to behave: is it about porn addiction or just a normal mood swings? am I just a part of his recovery process or does this relation means something for him?
Well , i don"t want to seem selfish but im really scared of being just a stage in his recovery process and rewiring, because I do really like him and im getting more attached day by day.
how should I behave in a way that I can help him in this experience and in the same time trying to build a sustainable relationship and not just a recovering tool?