I think I have PIED, and its affecting my sex life.

orlapan

New Member
Hi there My name is Orlapan
I'm 20 years old and I've been watching porn since I was 14. I would probably jerk off at least 5 times a week, and I've never masturbated without the use of porn successfully. I recently lost my virginity, however I couldnt stay hard the entire time. I would go soft multiple times and after a certain point she couldn't do anything to get me to cum.

At first I thought it was because I was nervous, but I didnt feel that much anxiety about it. She's definitely not the issue, shes exactly my type and I'm extremely attracted to her and her body. At this point we've tried 3 times. I'll get hard when we start kissing and then we'll start having sex and after 10 min I'll start going soft. Ill get hard again, but it wont be a full erection. Eventually I'll go soft again and we'll stop. I wasn't able to cum any of the 3 times.

After the first time it happened I decided I wouldn't jerk off or watch porn for a while, and I didnt for about a week. I decided I needed to know for sure though, and I watched porn this morning. Sure enough, I came in about 5 min ??????????

So I need advice, do you think this is PIED? Other than this girl, I've never had any sexual interactions in my life except for kissing. I still get erections, and I get hard when I'm with her. It just stops when we start doing it. Should I lay off of sex? Is there any way I can adjust from masturbation to sex? Should I lay off of kissing or any other sexual interaction? I really need advice because I dont want this to affect my sex life anymore.
 

Fappy

Respected Member
That's PIED right there. Textbook shit.
Do you still fap to porn?
If so, cut out the porn for a few weeks and you'll see some improvements
 
Hey man,

I'm struggling with the same issues myself. I have been addicted to porn since I was probably 11 or 12. I am 30 now and I have never been able to cum with any partner I have ever been with. I have noticed that if I go for about 3-4 days without porn and I watch it it takes me like 2 minutes to cum, but I cant Stay hard with my beautiful lady. I am now in the process of doing a reboot...after many failed attempts.

I finally have mustered up the courage to speak to my Fiance about it. We have been together for 2 years now and our sex life has been abysmal. Sometimes its alright, but mostly its just a disappointment. It's making be depressed as fuck. I am now taking proactive steps to eliminate porn from my life.

My Advice to you is stop watching...you are still young. Don't let it wait till you are 30 to really have some serious negative impacts on your psyche. There is hope and a better sex life on the other side. I keep reading about other peoples success stories and it gives me great inspiration.

Cheers man, and good luck!
 
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