huckleberry
Member
I'm 42, married with kids and I finally accept that I'm addicted to porn and I can't do this alone.
I first started looking at porn when I found out where my Dad hid his nudie mags in the late 1980s. Then, I used to read erotic stories on usenet in college (before the Web was everywhere). When porn was available free and easy online my usage exploded. It got even worse with smartphones.
It hasn't ruined my life but I dislike myself doing it for two main reasons. First, it is the only thing that I don't discuss with my wife. I'm ashamed that I continue to consume porn and that I hide it from her. I want to stop so there are no secrets between us. Second, I hate that I don't have the strength to JUST STOP. I've stopped for up to a few weeks now and then, but then the itch comes back and I start browsing again. I hate that I have been powerless against porn and I want to regain and assert my power.
So, I've joined Reboot Nation because I really want to address and kick this addiction once and for all. I haven't looked at porn for 6 days now, and I'm hoping to come here when I feel the need so that I can continue to stretch this number until I no longer feel the yearning for the easy release that porn gives. I haven't decided if I just want to stop porn or if would be helpful for me to stop masturbating for a while as well. I'm guessing yes.
Hopefully this journal will not include a lot of backsliding and I will do my best to hold myself accountable for my actions. ]
Nice to meet you all! I've been inspired by reading these posts the last week. Six days and counting!
I first started looking at porn when I found out where my Dad hid his nudie mags in the late 1980s. Then, I used to read erotic stories on usenet in college (before the Web was everywhere). When porn was available free and easy online my usage exploded. It got even worse with smartphones.
It hasn't ruined my life but I dislike myself doing it for two main reasons. First, it is the only thing that I don't discuss with my wife. I'm ashamed that I continue to consume porn and that I hide it from her. I want to stop so there are no secrets between us. Second, I hate that I don't have the strength to JUST STOP. I've stopped for up to a few weeks now and then, but then the itch comes back and I start browsing again. I hate that I have been powerless against porn and I want to regain and assert my power.
So, I've joined Reboot Nation because I really want to address and kick this addiction once and for all. I haven't looked at porn for 6 days now, and I'm hoping to come here when I feel the need so that I can continue to stretch this number until I no longer feel the yearning for the easy release that porn gives. I haven't decided if I just want to stop porn or if would be helpful for me to stop masturbating for a while as well. I'm guessing yes.
Hopefully this journal will not include a lot of backsliding and I will do my best to hold myself accountable for my actions. ]
Nice to meet you all! I've been inspired by reading these posts the last week. Six days and counting!