jithinkraj
Member
this is my 6th day. Nothing to say. I type lot before. 24 days was my highest. Lets see how long i can go this time.......
I started again
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Emanuelmdp82
Member
It doesn't matter if you relapse (I used to relapse months ago and didn't give up) The most important thing is to remain focused and motivated. You fall, you get up again. Take a record of your relapses, see if they are less frecuent with the time. If so, you are making progress.
Best
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jithinkraj
Member
Today is my 11 th day. This time I feel I can achive the goal. Many relapse from the past this time I not even look to a girls picture. I already discussed with my wife about my No Fap challenge. And she is ok with it. And she said she will help.
Today onwards my penis started itching badly. And many nights I was seeing dreams with very hot content also.
What is it brothers???
Today onwards my penis started itching badly. And many nights I was seeing dreams with very hot content also.
What is it brothers???
Emanuelmdp82
Member
As you stay away from porn, everything will improve. Keep it up.
jithinkraj
Member
Thanks bro. My itching over. Today onwards pain started on my balls. May be it's the blue ball effect. I think next two weeks will be horrible
Emanuelmdp82
Member
You're welcome.
I never felt pain in my balls, it doesn't happen to everyone.
Regards.
I never felt pain in my balls, it doesn't happen to everyone.
Regards.
jithinkraj
Member
Have finish the challenge?? How many days now?? Tomorrow is my 14 th day. 10 more days I will break my on record. I believe I can do it this time.
Emanuelmdp82
Member
16 months in the fight, 4 months my last PMO. Huge flatline 95% of the time.
jithinkraj
Member
Oh god. Today finished 14th day. Tomorrow day 15. Not feeling good now
jithinkraj
Member
4 months no pmo is a great achievement. It's everyone's dream. Now brain completely remove from porn right?? Or still urges are coming?? Can you enjoy real sex now? Have good libido now?? What you feel now???
Emanuelmdp82
Member
Thanks.
I like looking at women, but my penis doesn't respond. I have no sex because I can't.
The good news is that I have no urgency to watch porn, it seems that I've lost interest in it, it got boring and repetitive, like watching the same movie all the time.
A lot of work and gym keep my sexual energy low.
This week I didn't feel good. Bad days will happen, get used to it.
Best.
I like looking at women, but my penis doesn't respond. I have no sex because I can't.
The good news is that I have no urgency to watch porn, it seems that I've lost interest in it, it got boring and repetitive, like watching the same movie all the time.
A lot of work and gym keep my sexual energy low.
This week I didn't feel good. Bad days will happen, get used to it.
Best.
jithinkraj
Member
Today day 17.
Not feeling good. Wanted to do sex and orgasam.
So i met my girlfriend today and we did sex in real and i ejaculate at the end of it by masturbation.
Normally I cannot ejaculate with masturbation also without porn.
Its a good change.
its done within one minute.
Doing sex with real person is good or bad during no fap challenge?
Is it consider as a relapse?? I dont know.
But I feel good now.
I want to continue the challenge.
Not feeling good. Wanted to do sex and orgasam.
So i met my girlfriend today and we did sex in real and i ejaculate at the end of it by masturbation.
Normally I cannot ejaculate with masturbation also without porn.
Its a good change.
its done within one minute.
Doing sex with real person is good or bad during no fap challenge?
Is it consider as a relapse?? I dont know.
But I feel good now.
I want to continue the challenge.
Emanuelmdp82
Member
Sex with a person is good. Stay away from porn. I know it's not easy, but you have to create new habits and to unlearn the old ones.
jithinkraj
Member
Thanks bro. You are absolutely right.
There is a significant change I noticed this time.
My last time challenge few months before I relapsed on 24th day.
I watched a soft porn movie on youtube and I loose it.
Then I continue the challenge but after four days I ralapsed again.
Then I lost complete control and start doing PMO daily.
24th to 28th each day was very difficult and too much urges are coming everyday.
But this time I masturbated watching a real person but pleasere percentage is very less compared with doing it watching porn.
But today I not feeling any urges.
I feel week. But still not feeling crazy for watching porn.
I think something is happening inside me to look forward positively.
I need lot of support and encouragement from you guys.
Thanks a lot.
There is a significant change I noticed this time.
My last time challenge few months before I relapsed on 24th day.
I watched a soft porn movie on youtube and I loose it.
Then I continue the challenge but after four days I ralapsed again.
Then I lost complete control and start doing PMO daily.
24th to 28th each day was very difficult and too much urges are coming everyday.
But this time I masturbated watching a real person but pleasere percentage is very less compared with doing it watching porn.
But today I not feeling any urges.
I feel week. But still not feeling crazy for watching porn.
I think something is happening inside me to look forward positively.
I need lot of support and encouragement from you guys.
Thanks a lot.
Fappy
Respected Member
Hi,
Thats great that despite the relapse you feel that things are improving. Deffo a good sign!
Just remember to identify your triggers, take a note, then avoid them. But there are times when triggers present themselves in ways which we cannot avoid such as popping up on social media or in films. At such a time, recognise them for what they are - triggers that can make you relapse - and see through them, ignore them.
The sex thing is good too. Try to rewire your brain through plowing your girlfriend, or even just using her to stimulate yourself. The thing is to rewire to a real person whom you have intimate feelings for or affection towards, rather than some filthy pixels on a screen!
Thats great that despite the relapse you feel that things are improving. Deffo a good sign!
Just remember to identify your triggers, take a note, then avoid them. But there are times when triggers present themselves in ways which we cannot avoid such as popping up on social media or in films. At such a time, recognise them for what they are - triggers that can make you relapse - and see through them, ignore them.
The sex thing is good too. Try to rewire your brain through plowing your girlfriend, or even just using her to stimulate yourself. The thing is to rewire to a real person whom you have intimate feelings for or affection towards, rather than some filthy pixels on a screen!
jithinkraj
Member
thanks my brother.
Because of this Pop up triggers i deleted all my social media apps and even gaming apps too.
I use only whatsapp now.
I use youtube at my office but dont see it in home.
all these things trigger me in my previous attempts.
Today is my 19th day of not PMO ing.
My penis become softer and softer now.
The soft skin removes automatically daily now.
sometimes it is make me scared.
still feel like some changes are better than nothing.
I think daily M with death grip make my Penis so hard and nonsensitive.
So body working on it.
Yesterday again I sex with my girlfriend.
but neither ejaculated nor masturbated.
No orgasm also.
So i am not flat lined yet right.
Because of this Pop up triggers i deleted all my social media apps and even gaming apps too.
I use only whatsapp now.
I use youtube at my office but dont see it in home.
all these things trigger me in my previous attempts.
Today is my 19th day of not PMO ing.
My penis become softer and softer now.
The soft skin removes automatically daily now.
sometimes it is make me scared.
still feel like some changes are better than nothing.
I think daily M with death grip make my Penis so hard and nonsensitive.
So body working on it.
Yesterday again I sex with my girlfriend.
but neither ejaculated nor masturbated.
No orgasm also.
So i am not flat lined yet right.
Emanuelmdp82
Member
The secret is to stop considering watching porn as a need. Gabe Deem said that he took 9 months to recover completely, so there's still a long way to go.
We, as humans living in society, cannot stop thinking about sex, but we can stop thinking about supernatural stimuli like porn is. If you don't need it, it doesn't exist.
We, as humans living in society, cannot stop thinking about sex, but we can stop thinking about supernatural stimuli like porn is. If you don't need it, it doesn't exist.
Emanuelmdp82
Member
Porn numbs your brain, It's a horrible sensation passing from before being in flames when you talk to a beatiful woman and now being like ice.