minimarathonman
New Member
I am in my 2nd marriage of 24 years, and mostly happy, I was a divorced single dad before, with 2 sons for 8 years before I remarried. I can tell you that single dads don't get very many dates either, I was lonely, very lonely, and for me, loneliness was like a bitter cold chill that you just can't shake, this lead me to have sexual experiences with 3 different women over 8 years, and as a Christian man, I felt like a fake and a hypocrite, but I was really lonely. So when I got married I thought that would fix it, and it did, somewhat, but the reason why I'm telling you all of this is because you just can't put that much pressure on the other person to fill that void, we need healed, and if we dont realize this, we will fill that void with pornography,... I have done that too, and that's why I'm here, my recovery is now understood by me, to be a lifelong process. Day 3, and I am committed to being porn free.