Being consumed by porn took a big hit on my marriage. Our sex life for young 20 years old was not ideal at all. But we had good times we had bad times. Needles to say I never knew porn was the exact issue. She caught me multiple times... but I was typical and went back not knowing it was the culprit for our issues. I was punished for it never was I approached with this is a issue you need help. It was more or less I got yelled at. I think everytime I got caught it tore a part of her apart as well. Idk for sure but I wish I knew what I did now and i would have stopped sooner. I wish i had came across Gary's video sooner. Anyhow this ended our marriage but once I discovered the issue I asked for us to do counseling together but she made her mind up already. She filed for divorce and since then has already had 3 sexual partners that I know of during the process of the divorce. It has been a year since she filed and we are still going thru the process. I have taken the time to heal myself and focus on my reboot/hardmode. Over 450 since pmo and I know with Confidence I am done with this trash. I would have never treated my ex they way she treated me.... I would have helped her and done everything possible. But do you think her sleeping around is justifiable? Would viewing porn be considered cheating? Just a lot on my mind and looking for some input. I loved my wife and hate that this has broke us. But a part of me tells me she was never healthy anyhow with the way she has handled things.. we have two kids stuck between the divorce that hurts me a lot and hearing my ex being happy with other men just eats me to the core? But do I really deserve this treatment? Or am I being selfish?