I can totally see this point. Social media is supposed to be a tool to stay in touch with each other. But it has also become a speaking tube for everyone, so we are confronted daily with the needs and urges of other people. Sure it's the triggers that make it hard for you to stay clean - and they are latently there in many of the posts. Take Facebook's video previews for example. They are all set up in such a way that they get shared by as many people as possible. The video can contain a nice little kitten playing with a ball of wool, but the preview catches that one half of a second where the 17yo daughter walks through the scene wearing only a little tank top. The "eroticization" of our generation is in full progress, yet not evident to the creduluos user. Even if such videos or posts do not contain erotic stuff, there is a high chance we look into another guilty pleasure like eating, smoking, alcohol, car races, adrenalin-kicks. No one posts a picture of his dented car or his degenerated appartment building. It's all about pimped BMWs, beautiful villas and lofts and newest technology...facebook is a fake world just like porn is.
Besides, there are many technical similarities:
- high clicking frequency (always chasing new fantasies and more dary news/vids/pic, not watching a video to the finish, fast-forwarding etc)
- colorful preview that attracts your attention
- updated at least hourly
- a possibility to act out on voyeuristic fantasies (stalking hot friends, searching for more semi-racy pictures in their albums, ...)
For me it had been enough to avoid certain content. I used to watch those videos that caught my interest in the first place. Now I think twice and read through the description before viewing. When it says something like "at first I didn't believe it, but then I was shocked" or even "...see for yourself what this hot girl is able to do" I simply don't click on it. Just like the "click" gives you a mental reward, you can be rewarded you for not-clicking - when you are in a serious recovery and happy with your choice and motivation. Also I used to like to browse through pictures of some beautiful friends of mine. Now I don't comment on their pictures anymore and don't even look at them in full-size mode. I stick to messages and political information, band tour information etc.
Same for 9Gag by the way. Know the content, stay away from what your mind seems to like too much. Stick to the funny things if you are up for some entertainment and ignore all the rest. If that does not work for you then be honest to yourself, admit that you can't do it and quit those sites for good.