57yrold
Active Member
25 days without porn. So far so good, except this terrific flatline. No desire to look at porn what so ever though...
I've had two nights where my wife and I fooled around. One at about a week after stopping porn, and the second at a little past three weeks.
I can't get an erection, so we didn't have intercourse, but we did a lot of other stuff. She had a great time and had two orgasms both nights.
I was not able to orgasm from her at all. DE and lots of difficulty. However, I was very excited, and after all her work, it only took me a few seconds with my hand to cum.
I was not fantasizing, nor even thinking of anything else. Just the intimacy with her, and how much I was enjoying being with her. I love her so, so much!
Would like others thoughts and suggestions on this.
On one hand, maybe it might be good to go no P, no M, and no O, but on the other hand, I feel like I was really emotionally close with her both nights, and it really felt like I was rewired to her.
Do you think this is a setback? Or is it a good thing to cum with her, even though I had to finish the last little bit with my hand?
Thanks for everything. These forums are fantastic!
I've had two nights where my wife and I fooled around. One at about a week after stopping porn, and the second at a little past three weeks.
I can't get an erection, so we didn't have intercourse, but we did a lot of other stuff. She had a great time and had two orgasms both nights.
I was not able to orgasm from her at all. DE and lots of difficulty. However, I was very excited, and after all her work, it only took me a few seconds with my hand to cum.
I was not fantasizing, nor even thinking of anything else. Just the intimacy with her, and how much I was enjoying being with her. I love her so, so much!
Would like others thoughts and suggestions on this.
On one hand, maybe it might be good to go no P, no M, and no O, but on the other hand, I feel like I was really emotionally close with her both nights, and it really felt like I was rewired to her.
Do you think this is a setback? Or is it a good thing to cum with her, even though I had to finish the last little bit with my hand?
Thanks for everything. These forums are fantastic!