Swebooting
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Hi everyone!
My journey started as many in here, in 1988 when I was 11 I found my first magazine, when I was 12 I borrowed a porn movie from an older friend and at the age of 13 I discovered my fathers suitcase full of video tapes containing hard- and soft porn. At first I didnt watch on a regular basis, but around 16-17 I was really into it, jerking of to porn several times a week.
I had a hard time getting the girl I wanted in school at this time (age16-18), falling in love with schools most wanted girls (of course...) I was so heartbroken from a girl in my class not interested in me that i more or less swore not to ever fall in love again or allow myself getting heartbroken again. And, I still had my fathers porn movies at home together with some of my own. When I was around 19 we got a computer in the house and that opened up a new world for me. I didnt dare look up porn, but another thing got me immediately hooked up: sexchatting. I started doing this A LOT (many many hours until I finally allowed myself an orgasm) and I also continued watching porn.
In 2000 I moved to my own apartment and got my first computer. All my nights during two years I spent in front of that stupid computer, chasing porn, sexchatt and I also spent thousands of Swedish kronor on telephonesex. At the same time I was attending Swedish Navy Officers School and I did good and had loads of nice friends and got popular among girls. But no real sex. I had sex the first time when I was 17, with two girl, whom the first passed of (we were all drunk), and the other one, well, we had sex but it wasnt pretty...
I got my first real girlfriend in 2002 and we had plenty of nice sex allthough I often had performance anxiety, dunno why really... but now I also had high speed internet and I watched porn everyday without my girlfriend knowing. We broke up after 6 months, not because of porn but loss of love.
And since then Ive been watching porn almost on an everyday basis for the last 17 years. Today I have destroyed my libido. I cant get arroused with my wife. Ive cheated on my wife in order to experiance the hardcore porn I turn on to, which failed as I couldnt get it up. I even started porn on my computer when we were about to kick in, afraid of losing my boner (which I did anyway)...
Some background, impressive if you still are reading this. I havent watched porn since Decembre 2018 but I have masterbated a lot with porn fantasies but I ended the masturbation for five weeks ago also.
Now:
I have absolutely ZERO libido. At the beginning I noticed some rock hard boners but they disappeard again. Now Im in a total flatline feeling nothing at all- which is so scary. Ive taken Gabe?s advice letting it all go. But Im anxious, no porn for 6 months and libido still at zero. Maybe Ive been watching porn for TO long? My wife for almost 8 years and I had sex even when I watched all this porn, ruining what probably could have been awsome, but I was always afraid losing my boner and always ejaculated to early...
Am I a last cause here?
Thanks/
Hans, Sweden
My journey started as many in here, in 1988 when I was 11 I found my first magazine, when I was 12 I borrowed a porn movie from an older friend and at the age of 13 I discovered my fathers suitcase full of video tapes containing hard- and soft porn. At first I didnt watch on a regular basis, but around 16-17 I was really into it, jerking of to porn several times a week.
I had a hard time getting the girl I wanted in school at this time (age16-18), falling in love with schools most wanted girls (of course...) I was so heartbroken from a girl in my class not interested in me that i more or less swore not to ever fall in love again or allow myself getting heartbroken again. And, I still had my fathers porn movies at home together with some of my own. When I was around 19 we got a computer in the house and that opened up a new world for me. I didnt dare look up porn, but another thing got me immediately hooked up: sexchatting. I started doing this A LOT (many many hours until I finally allowed myself an orgasm) and I also continued watching porn.
In 2000 I moved to my own apartment and got my first computer. All my nights during two years I spent in front of that stupid computer, chasing porn, sexchatt and I also spent thousands of Swedish kronor on telephonesex. At the same time I was attending Swedish Navy Officers School and I did good and had loads of nice friends and got popular among girls. But no real sex. I had sex the first time when I was 17, with two girl, whom the first passed of (we were all drunk), and the other one, well, we had sex but it wasnt pretty...
I got my first real girlfriend in 2002 and we had plenty of nice sex allthough I often had performance anxiety, dunno why really... but now I also had high speed internet and I watched porn everyday without my girlfriend knowing. We broke up after 6 months, not because of porn but loss of love.
And since then Ive been watching porn almost on an everyday basis for the last 17 years. Today I have destroyed my libido. I cant get arroused with my wife. Ive cheated on my wife in order to experiance the hardcore porn I turn on to, which failed as I couldnt get it up. I even started porn on my computer when we were about to kick in, afraid of losing my boner (which I did anyway)...
Some background, impressive if you still are reading this. I havent watched porn since Decembre 2018 but I have masterbated a lot with porn fantasies but I ended the masturbation for five weeks ago also.
Now:
I have absolutely ZERO libido. At the beginning I noticed some rock hard boners but they disappeard again. Now Im in a total flatline feeling nothing at all- which is so scary. Ive taken Gabe?s advice letting it all go. But Im anxious, no porn for 6 months and libido still at zero. Maybe Ive been watching porn for TO long? My wife for almost 8 years and I had sex even when I watched all this porn, ruining what probably could have been awsome, but I was always afraid losing my boner and always ejaculated to early...
Am I a last cause here?
Thanks/
Hans, Sweden