Can I bust a nut to porn just one time!

Omg I'm dying to bust a nut! My longest streak was 120 days and even that wasn't long enough to cure my erectile dysfunction and right now I'm on day 35 and I'm DYING to let it out! I haven't orgasmed and I miss it, I wish there was success stories that involved minimal porn use not ZERO! I fucking hate this syndrome  :-[

The biggest mindfuck of this whole thing comes from your mind. You end up having to ask yourself if you are horny or does your brain want it's fix? Your brain wants the fix and knows how to get it or how it felt when it got it. All of a sudden it's not getting it and it sends you the "wtf happened to all this awesome?" message.

See how far you get without porn or porn fantasy. If it don't work out, it's not a sexual urge. In other words, you don't want to nut. You just wanna watch porn.

Also, have you tried interacting with some real females (apologies if that's not your preference)? If not, do it now. You gotta get used to having rewarding interactions with real people.

The fact that you mention its you wanna bust a nut *to porn* indicates youre addicted to porn and its not the urge to release thats bothering but youre addiction to porn.

Secondly you said youd been off it for 120 days and it hadnt cured, which clearly means you need more. So no you may NOT bust it even once.

I would highly suggest you stop fantasizing. Thats whats made it easy for me. I just dont fantasize at all, and proactively block all thoughts of sex and even thoughts that might lead to sex

Also, I wonder what else you're doing to support  yourself in this journey. I think just cutting out porn is not enough, it helps to create a healthy diet and have an exercise regimine. I do yoga, swim and run. It really helps, not only to use up that excess anxiety that is caused by thinking about P, but also to create testosterone, which is healthy for natural sexuality. Good luck with your journey, personally though if you're experiencing the issues you are, I don't think it's just P. I think there may be other factors contributing. 

tunnelvision12 said:

[..]I haven't orgasmed and I miss it, I wish there was success stories that involved minimal porn use not ZERO! [..]

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Um, you can MO without porn just fine. There is no hard rule that you can't, it is just not recommended and you usually heal faster. If you actually can't MO without porn anymore: then yeah, you have a real problem and addiction. That should slightly worry you and give you enough motivation to stop, until you can at least MO without porn.

Do you have any willing and able partner that can do the heavy lifting?

nobullshit said:

I would highly suggest you stop fantasizing. Thats whats made it easy for me. I just dont fantasize at all, and proactively block all thoughts of sex and even thoughts that might lead to sex

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I have a question though, why must a person block out thoughts of sex? I mean i get the idea that it could eventually lead you back to porn use, but if your interacting with real girls during your reboot wouldnt that be suggesting an alternative for your brain to rewire itself based on the real life experiences?

@ vikingAD

why must a person block out thoughts of sex? I mean i get the idea that it could eventually lead you back to porn use, but if your interacting with real girls during your reboot wouldnt that be suggesting an alternative for your brain to rewire itself based on the real life experiences?

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Well, you combined two different things together there. Yes, interacting with real girls during your reboot is beneficial and encouraged, but fantasizing about any porn related thing may activate some of the same neurological pathways that you have from porn use. Fantasizing about real girls is something we are not sure about. Member nobullshit was just offering his advice, he said "that's what made it easy for me."

You don't have to follow the "don't think about sex at all approach", but we suggest avoiding all porn fantasy. If you choose a different way, come back and report how it goes for you.

A person doesn't "have" to block out thoughts of sex, it was just advice to help with the reboot process.

I hear ya, i suppose blocking out all forms of fantasy could help, and trying to rewire your libido to the things that are actually happening in front of your face