Sadnancy61
New Member
Hi..I?m a newbie!
My bf quit porn around a year ago and still isn?t able to get erections, it doesn?t help that I?m so traumatised by his porn addiction. However we are still together and want it to work out.
I don?t know what we are supposed to be doing to rewire his brain to me. He wants me to masturbate him but it?s not fully erect and I don?t see the point because it just causes me more upset that he?s not enjoying it and it?s a pointless exercise..
I keep reading stories about other guys recovering and wandering why it isn?t working for us. He doesn?t kiss me or anything or enjoy any sort of foreplay. He is however affectionate out with the bedroom.
Please help because I?m really overwhelmed by it all
My bf quit porn around a year ago and still isn?t able to get erections, it doesn?t help that I?m so traumatised by his porn addiction. However we are still together and want it to work out.
I don?t know what we are supposed to be doing to rewire his brain to me. He wants me to masturbate him but it?s not fully erect and I don?t see the point because it just causes me more upset that he?s not enjoying it and it?s a pointless exercise..
I keep reading stories about other guys recovering and wandering why it isn?t working for us. He doesn?t kiss me or anything or enjoy any sort of foreplay. He is however affectionate out with the bedroom.
Please help because I?m really overwhelmed by it all