need help plz advise me

knagen148

New Member
sorry for such a long post but i think I should tell every thing if i want a true advise
I am 23 yr old .I was first exposed to porn when i was at 15 and i am masturbatingvsince i was 13. my porn uses was not regular some times twice in a day or some times an absence for 15 days or more but i was masturbating on regular basis like 5-6 times in a week.Before june 2017 i was full of libido and can get aroused just by seeing a hot girl at any where or place but in june 2017 i was watching a movie on my laptop and drunked. in that movie the actor was not able to get erect bcz of his drug addiction even with viagara so i thought i should also try to masturbate and the problem starts there bcz i was not fully erected it was like 50% erection then in july 2017 i found NoFap and i thought to give it a try. my first target was for 90 days but i relapsed on 25th day and since then i have had 5 streaks of 25-28 days but not 90 days and i have quitted porn entirely since april 2018 and just musterbating 2-3 times after a streak of 25 days but after masturbation i am not able to get it up at my will. i have morning wood almost daily after i started no pmo but i think that may be bcz of urine pressure in morning and having random erection like 70-80 % erected but not in my control. in starting i fantasized and tried to get erect then it took normally 3 -4 min. to get erect without any physical touch to my self then i stopped fantasizing also . Guys I need serious advice bcz I may get married next year and i am virgin still I think now i am ready to go for a 90 day streak. plz give your suggestions guys
 

foo

Member
I think you already know the answer: stop porn, stop masturbating, and stop fantasizing.

> I think now i am ready to go for a 90 day streak

Why set a bar for possible failure in 90 days? Make it a lifetime streak! I know it's easy to say that, but the point is to make the goal to be free of porn forever.

Stay clean and pure for your future wife.
 

knagen148

New Member
foo said:
I think you already know the answer: stop porn, stop masturbating, and stop fantasizing.

> I think now i am ready to go for a 90 day streak

Why set a bar for possible failure in 90 days? Make it a lifetime streak! I know it's easy to say that, but the point is to make the goal to be free of porn forever.

Stay clean and pure for your future wife.
i am also thinking about to stay pure for future what about your progresss ?
 

knagen148

New Member
update:guys I was having regular morning wood and night erection while sleeping regularly in my previous streaks but whenever i masturbated in previous streaks then for next 3 4 day no erections and arousal and even no morning wood but durnig day time very less i got a boner
during this streak on 1st day i had night erection almost 70% and then for next 4 days everything was dead but today in day time i had a random erection about 70% but that lasted only for 1min.
what do yyou guys think avout this is this normal ???
 

knagen148

New Member
update:guys i am having morning wood since last 2 days and one or two random boners with 50-60% erection and feeling positively it has been 11th day on my new journey
 
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