WinkTinkTillium
Active Member
Hi Everyone!
I have continued reading as i go through the first few weeks of my reboot but still have many questions. 2 weeks in so far. no relapses, definitely flat lined but do respond to physical stimulus from my girlfriend or cuddling/grinding etc. Only mistake i have made is Orgasming via oral sex 3 times over the last 2 weeks when the porn i masturbated to was almost primarily oral sex etc. Cutting that piece out with the support of my girlfriend and driving on with the journey.
link to my story: http://legacy.rebootnation.org/index.php?topic=15968.0
However i am wondering what others found non detrimental to the dopamine/mental reset from their reboot. Kissing, cuddling, sensual showers, massages, handjobs? are they all acceptable? should i try sex even if not successful?
Or is the initial most important part not to orgasm at all for any reason? to really jump start the biochemistry, e.g wet dream etc etc
I have continued reading as i go through the first few weeks of my reboot but still have many questions. 2 weeks in so far. no relapses, definitely flat lined but do respond to physical stimulus from my girlfriend or cuddling/grinding etc. Only mistake i have made is Orgasming via oral sex 3 times over the last 2 weeks when the porn i masturbated to was almost primarily oral sex etc. Cutting that piece out with the support of my girlfriend and driving on with the journey.
link to my story: http://legacy.rebootnation.org/index.php?topic=15968.0
However i am wondering what others found non detrimental to the dopamine/mental reset from their reboot. Kissing, cuddling, sensual showers, massages, handjobs? are they all acceptable? should i try sex even if not successful?
Or is the initial most important part not to orgasm at all for any reason? to really jump start the biochemistry, e.g wet dream etc etc