Help ED,Low libido and Viagra

Hi

I am 26. I get good erections using porn. Without stimuli, it is sometimes there sometimes not. I never stopped having wet dreams. They have always been there. I think it because I never had sex on a regular basis. Even during my relationship, I used to fuck once a month(but it was too much fucking in a few days because we used to stay in different cities). I have noticed I don't have a regular boner in the morning. 

My story:
I started Masturbating when I was 17. I lost my virginity at 19. My friend gave me viagra for the first time to calm my nerves about performance anxiety. Sex went well. It was a dry period the next few years until I was 22. I tried with my GF. I could not get hard. I was nervous and she was a virgin. Then I tried again later with my GF after one year(we broke up in between). I took viagra this time thinking to myself this will be a one-time thing. Yes, it was just one time. We had good tuning and I never used viagra with her for the next 3 years. She knew how to get me hard. But my dick used to be hard and partially hard during sex. That was normal for both of us.

During this time I was also going on one night stands(I was in an open relationship). I always took viagra whenever I got a one-night stand. My mind is just programmed that I will not get hard with new women due to nervousness. Its been a year since I broke up(not related to sex. Sex was awesome). I only had one chance to fuck during this time. We fucked the first day. I was rock solid thanks to viagra. The 2nd day I tried to fuck her(I took the pill in the night) I could not get hard. I felt terrible. I took another pill but she had her own issues and we did not have sex again.

I tried masturbating without porn. I have had hits and misses. I still get hard thinking about women I am involved with. But there are hits and misses meaning there are times I cant get hard. I think my problem is my mind and some of it is porn as well. I have decided to stop porn usage. I don't know how to get over my fear of ED whenever I go and sleep with new women.

I hate the viagra use as well. I get headaches next morning and feel sick the whole next day. I want to cut it out. I want to be confident of my erection and performance.

Please help me.

I am also trying to understanding the whole reboot process. Does it include no Masturbation and sex?

Recently added Part 2,

I recently met this super beautiful girl(8.5/10) that I took home. I took viagra as I was nervous that I will get only partial erection. I could only last for 10-15 min. I wanted to go another round but she slept(6.30am)as we started pretty late. I started rebooting 10 days back.  I also noticed that my libido is less. I don't feel like I need more sex. Just a year back I used to go 4-5 round in a night. I think its also my confidence that I didn't want to disappoint the women.

I will keep my reboot going but how long do you think I should wait to try?
Is low Libido normal?

You need to see a psychologist for this as it seems its in your mind.

You connected your mind with viagra caused of your nervousness.

You have to cure it all not just the symptom.
Try all-in.

Go get a one night stand with a girl you havent met before without a pill of viagra.
Even if you fail you are a step ahead.
When success comes confident will too.
When confidents come you will free yourself

There is no shortcut to it in my opinion.Do what i said and tell me if that helped!
Remember that even in failure you made a step forward also and dont rush yourself to viagra.
Actually throw them in the trash.

I hope you get over this

Try weaning yourself off the Viagra by gradually cutting the dose. In time you may find you don't need it at all.

But first and foremost, stay off porn and masturbation.

First, why did you start taking Viagra when you were already getting healthy erections? Your problem seems to be psychological. You are overthinking, which is increasing your anticipatory anxiety and eventually your performance. All you need to do is keep calm and trust yourself. Plus, you are too young to use Viagra. Using Viagra without having impotence is a bad idea. Keep faith in your abilities; you will be able to satisfy a woman naturally.

You could be flatlining. This is a normal process of the reboot. Its a complete lack of libdo or interest in sex due to withdrawal. Dont worry about it though, it will pass soon and youll be back to getting rock hard natural erections.
Its actually quite refreshing to be in a flatline I found. ts great not to think about jacking off and porn constantly!
Enjoy!
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Libido is different than PIED. I was using proviron along with test and had boners all day long but I was craving only porn. Did not do anything as far as being attracted to real partners.

Instead made my reboot really harder especially in the first days because I had urge after urge after urge.

You can take the most unhealthy people and still get erection with real partners and then you can take a perfectly healthy 20 years old male full of test and androgens who is only aroused by pixels. Know the difference.

I agree with usualmood above.
Libido and PIED arent so interconnected. You could have a raging libido, like some type of sexual tyranosaurus, and still not be able to get an erection due to your porn addiction. In that respect, taking pills to force up a hard cock will just cause more frustration in the long run as it could lead to dependency on the pills, too. Youll just be swapping one addiction for another!
Stick to rewiring your brain - that is the only real cure

One of the main reasons I am currently off season is because I went back to porn and I need to reboot again but it is extremely hard if you are on gear especially the first weeks.

Now I have normal urges which are way more managable.

Rebooter27 said:

I hate the viagra use as well. I get headaches next morning and feel sick the whole next day. I want to cut it out. I want to be confident of my erection and performance.

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This is pretty much how I feel now, after successfully rebooting (though the proof is in the pudding - I won't know if I HAVE successfully rebooted until I kiss a girl, or go further)  I'm nervous about how I will be with a real woman when that eventually happens.

Good luck....in terms of a reboot, I think my first one was about three months, but my most recent lasted about 3-4 years as I kept going back to porn and didn't have a regular girlfriend in that time, so it's almost like some days there was no point in not using porn because "meh, it's the only action I get". Negative thoughts that you tell yourself to excuse your behaviour, but it's not worth the amount of time it adds to your reboot in the end.