Hey Guys, was hoping to share my story here to see if anyone went through anything similar.
As the title suggests, approximately 100 days into my reboot, only MO'd once (around day 80) without porn and that was because I was so amazed that I had morning wood again that I just got excited and carried away. Im 24, healthy, sports, all the good stuff. My only big vice is that I smoke a ton of weed (daily).
I've definitely experienced some of the positive effects of rebooting. As mentioned, I'll sometimes wake up to a morning chub (not every morning), spontaneous erections for no reason, penis looks healthier and even a bit bigger when flaccid. I can also get hard just by touching without any mental imagery or porn. So far so good right?
Here's the kicker, I have a girlfriend who I've been seeing since day 60ish of my reboot and Im not experiencing the rock hard erections that come with cuddling or making out or foreplay that many of the success stories talk about once they've completed their reboot. I'll get a bunch of semis and LOTS of precum leakage when we're fondling each other, but it doesn't feel like the erection is strong enough to do the deed sorta thing.
It's especially frustrating considering I'll be watching tv by myself, in sweats, get this monster viagra-like spontaneous erection and all I can think about is why it doesn't happen when im with her! I was kind of hoping to be able to seal the deal by now...but the fact that it still hasn't happened is starting to wear on me, whenever we're together all I can think about is how I most likely wont be able to get hard enough to sleep with her- and I KNOW that's not a good place for my head to be at. I've talked about it with her and told her it's due to anxiety and that I just need to get comfortable with her...but could that be the case now? Has my ED with women gone from porn induced to anxiety induced?? I was under the impression that rebooting was supposed to take care of anxiety as well!!
Or is it possible that I'm still in the reboot phase, I know for many people it takes well over 90 days, depending on how early they started etc. For me personally I DID start at quite an early age, MOing, then PMOing, we had satellite TV with like, 3 different porn channels so that didn't help. And I would often binge 3 or 4 PMO sessions a day so the problem was quite profound.
So...what do you guys think? Any and all feedback is greatly appreciated. I look forward to hearing from you guys. Thanks.
As the title suggests, approximately 100 days into my reboot, only MO'd once (around day 80) without porn and that was because I was so amazed that I had morning wood again that I just got excited and carried away. Im 24, healthy, sports, all the good stuff. My only big vice is that I smoke a ton of weed (daily).
I've definitely experienced some of the positive effects of rebooting. As mentioned, I'll sometimes wake up to a morning chub (not every morning), spontaneous erections for no reason, penis looks healthier and even a bit bigger when flaccid. I can also get hard just by touching without any mental imagery or porn. So far so good right?
Here's the kicker, I have a girlfriend who I've been seeing since day 60ish of my reboot and Im not experiencing the rock hard erections that come with cuddling or making out or foreplay that many of the success stories talk about once they've completed their reboot. I'll get a bunch of semis and LOTS of precum leakage when we're fondling each other, but it doesn't feel like the erection is strong enough to do the deed sorta thing.
It's especially frustrating considering I'll be watching tv by myself, in sweats, get this monster viagra-like spontaneous erection and all I can think about is why it doesn't happen when im with her! I was kind of hoping to be able to seal the deal by now...but the fact that it still hasn't happened is starting to wear on me, whenever we're together all I can think about is how I most likely wont be able to get hard enough to sleep with her- and I KNOW that's not a good place for my head to be at. I've talked about it with her and told her it's due to anxiety and that I just need to get comfortable with her...but could that be the case now? Has my ED with women gone from porn induced to anxiety induced?? I was under the impression that rebooting was supposed to take care of anxiety as well!!
Or is it possible that I'm still in the reboot phase, I know for many people it takes well over 90 days, depending on how early they started etc. For me personally I DID start at quite an early age, MOing, then PMOing, we had satellite TV with like, 3 different porn channels so that didn't help. And I would often binge 3 or 4 PMO sessions a day so the problem was quite profound.
So...what do you guys think? Any and all feedback is greatly appreciated. I look forward to hearing from you guys. Thanks.