100 day hard mode failed sex attempt, learn from my huge mistake

rommie26

Member
About me I'm 23, Been watching porn since I was 10 but starting to jack off to it since I was 11

Been clean of porn and masturbation for a year and a half but recently did 100 day hard mode which got my libido back, more confidence, deeper voice, strong morning erections, etc but when I attempted to have sex I once again had limp dick, no interest in the girl, etc

And here's what I did wrong....fantasy!!! Hard mode should definetly be switched from no PMO to no PMFO because fantasy is what I think held me back, no matter if it's real girls or porn fantasies I think your dopamine still gets released so don't make my mistake and fantasize while doing hard mode

As for me even tho I failed and got limp I still got a BJ and orgasmed from it. Now it's the next day and I have no morning wood, a little anxiety, and shitty mood. I feel like I did all that work for nothing.
 

malando

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Maybe you were just nervous?

It's funny how people just expect sex with a new girl to just work automatically. It usually doesn't work that well. You don't feel confident with a new person. Anxiety is very high. You would probably have had a very different experience if it was with somebody you felt very relaxed and comfortable with. Maybe work on finding a nice girlfriend and not just having sex.n
 

Camouflage

Active Member
I agree with Malando. Performance anxiety can kill an erection pretty easily. It doesn't necessarily mean that your reboot has failed.
 

davenl

Active Member
I agree that fantasy should be avoided during the reboot. Especially if you find that makes you high like P does. But at the same time, if it has been so long ago you watched P, it might be something else. Just try to relax and give it time. Thats what I am going to do
 

Puggler

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Dude, what are you gonna do now? Any improvements? Are you going to do nopmo challenge from the scratch?
 

rommie26

Member
Continue no porn and masturbation but as far as orgasm I'm gonna try and not have any orgasms but if a girl I know wants to have sex I'm gonna use cialis and see where that takes me
 
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