Fetish for Big Breasts ? Am I able to overcome this ?

jinniboy98

New Member
Hello Fellas,
First I wanna admit that I'm new here and I heard about that forum from YourBrainOnPorn.
I also will be very direct and honest with my expression here !

Short information about me: I'm a 21 years old guy from germany and I'm doing an apprenticeship as an IT-Systems Enginner. I heard about NoFap from the PickUP/Seduction and Personal Developement - Community where I'm orignally comming from and I also listen to audiobooks as you might guessed. Back then, I had troubles with getting Girls and now it's getting better and I started dating more girls. I started with this about 1 year and 7 Months ago.

Now here is my following and actual problem. Since my puberty, I realized that I have very strong preference for huge breasts and I only (or mostly) watched porn from that genre (I started with 12 years). I was never really interested in casual porn/sex (or other genres). I aslo started NoFap ca. half a year ago but I failed every time because my strong additction (I would say) for huge assetes and jerked off to them (I only jerk off maybe 2 - 3 times a week). I also realized that when I hooked up with a few girls, who were actually pretty, but didn't had my prefered boob size, I had troubles with getting errections and literally couldn't "enjoy a pussy" ! Whereas when I visited some prostitutes with my pfeferences, I got hard much faster and mostly when I did spanish (aka. boob-sex ) I came within 5min ! It's strange !

Now, according to the book, I'm asking myself if my preferences or alsmost fetish (I would say), is a condition that I've build over the past years or if it's just a "sexual taste/preference" , which I have a high addiction for. And do you have any tipps and strategies to overcome that, or if it's possible at all to overcome it so I can start really having fun with the female genitals and not only big assets.

Note: I'm really sorry if I'm coming across as a guy who is just "objectifying women" because of their body-type or certain areas. I'm not and also aware of that I have to emotionally connect with girls.

I'm really looking forward for your help guys !
Cheers !
 

dusty

Active Member
I know this fetish very well because I'm in it also. Don't know if our cases are the same but around 3 years ago I didn't find big boobs attractive. Moreover I wasn't a boob guy, only took care about nice ass and face. But because of the porn I developed huge big breast fetish. Every failed reboots which I had was connected with this fetish.

In addition my gf has small boobs. And in one moment I was close to cheated her with a hooker with big books. I mean I was thinking about this a lot. But I love her and she's beautiful so it's one of my motivation to do a proper reboot. What is more futher when I had my best streak I came to ass preferences and this boobs fetish fade away.

Don't know of I help but anyway take care. I assume that,'s your fetish could be porn developed as mine
 
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Numez

Guest
you might have a natural preferences for big chest and its cool. with quitting porn you will see if that is the case or if it was just the porn induced fetish. you gotta quit porn though, there is no other way.

preference or fetish for big chest may not even be a problem for you. if it does not go away, maybe you truly like them to look like they are part of the solar system. one thing you will solve for sure is the part where you dont find other part of her body attractive. if you can get an erection only for spanish sex, that is going to change for sure, for the better.

sounds like a pretty long standing problem of yours. almost a decade, so dont rush things. if after few months you still have a problem, dont get discouraged.

 
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