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Hey folks, Rich here. I know I have written a few posts here, but this one is different. What we are doing here, I think, is creating our new normal. In the 7 Habits of Highly Effective People (a book I have begun many, many times , but not yet finished), Stephen Covey spells out how to live a successful professional and personal life. One of his primary points, if I may summarize half of his book, is integrity. Your life should be an open book. If you are successful, Covey maintains, there should be no skeletons in your closet. Your life should be an open book. Someone should be able to ask several different people about your character and what you get up to; your wife, your best friend, your boss; and they would all say the same thing. Obviously people shouldn't know what is going on between the sheets, or other very personal information, but people should know who.and what you are.
That, ladies and gentleman, is what I do believe we are doing here. We are making a new, revolutionary normal. Let me ask you this. How many people can you talk to about this? Your porn addiction: who knows about it, who do you talk to.about it? I thought so. I am not, in any way, saying that you should talk to anyone about this problem you have. No one should or needs to know. But that is my very point. Don't you want to be the type of person Covey describes? Don't you wish that you could live your life, walking around, knowing you have nothing, absolutely nothing, to hide? Your significant other approves and supports you. Your boss thinks you are the best employee at the company. You go out with your friends and can tell your wife everything, verbatim that happened. You are an open book.
This reboot is your opportunity to redefine and reinvent your life. Reconnect with yoir hobbies: read books, make models, go out and do the gardening. Do you know what all lf these things have in common? You can talk about them, with anybody. The boss, your wife, your best friend.
"You know what I did this weekend? I finished the book I have been reading." "My wife and I saw a movie." "I preened the roses."
What you say isn't important. But for once, just once in your life, don't you wish you could live this open life? No secrets. Nothing to be ashamed of.
You can, through this program. Keep at it, fellas. You got this!
Best,
Rich
That, ladies and gentleman, is what I do believe we are doing here. We are making a new, revolutionary normal. Let me ask you this. How many people can you talk to about this? Your porn addiction: who knows about it, who do you talk to.about it? I thought so. I am not, in any way, saying that you should talk to anyone about this problem you have. No one should or needs to know. But that is my very point. Don't you want to be the type of person Covey describes? Don't you wish that you could live your life, walking around, knowing you have nothing, absolutely nothing, to hide? Your significant other approves and supports you. Your boss thinks you are the best employee at the company. You go out with your friends and can tell your wife everything, verbatim that happened. You are an open book.
This reboot is your opportunity to redefine and reinvent your life. Reconnect with yoir hobbies: read books, make models, go out and do the gardening. Do you know what all lf these things have in common? You can talk about them, with anybody. The boss, your wife, your best friend.
"You know what I did this weekend? I finished the book I have been reading." "My wife and I saw a movie." "I preened the roses."
What you say isn't important. But for once, just once in your life, don't you wish you could live this open life? No secrets. Nothing to be ashamed of.
You can, through this program. Keep at it, fellas. You got this!
Best,
Rich