justincredible
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Hey everyone,
I stumbled upon this community recently when I was researching ways to get harder and longer lasting erections. I definitely related to many aspects of PIED but there are others that don't necessarily apply. My wife can always get me hard and make me cum rather quickly but it is typically only semi-hard and we often either verbally fantasize about a scenario during sex, watch porn together, or read an erotic story together to get us to the point of having a great orgasm. It isn't always needed for her as I can get her to cum rather quickly with my tongue but I almost always need her to talk to me about her 'being naughty'.
We've been married for 8 years and together for 10. I've had the hotwife fantasy the entire time (turned on by the thought of her being naughty with someone else). She was always against ever doing it in real life but we did fantasize about it often during sex. Last year, out of nowhere, it actually happened for real. A coworker of hers that was often in our fantasy scenarios seduced her. They ended up having sex ongoing for 6 months before she broke it off. Her sex drive was absolutely through the roof for both of us that entire time and the two of them would have these hot and long sex sessions.
I can't often give her those same types of sexual experiences because I can't stay hard for that long. I want to get to a place that I can have a harder erection that will actually last for a long sex session. I have had a very bad porn habit for as long as I can remember. I work from home so I often would find myself lost in the world of porn for hours at a time and making myself cum multiple times a day.
Where I may differ from others is that my wife is the focal point of my fantasies 99% of the time when I am watching porn or reading erotica. I'm either searching for something to watch with her sometime and getting really turned on by the thought of it making her wet. Or I'm imaging her being in the naughty scenario of the porn I am watching (casting porn, hotwife, group sex, lesbian, cheating, office sex, threesome, etc).
Since she is the focal point of my fantasies and since she can make me semi-hard and I can always orgasm during sex......will my reboot to hard and long-lasting erections be faster than average? I'm only on day 3 of no porn and day 6 of no masturbation but I already feel like I'm in the flatline phase. My cock has seemed a lot smaller than usually the past two days and yesterday was the first day I can remember since I hit puberty that I didn't get horny even once during the day.
Are there any members that have had only moderate ED that have had really fast success at getting back to full raging hard-ons?
Are there any members that share the same hotwife fantasy and does that go away?
My wife and I had just gotten to the point that downloaded some dating apps to find threesome partners or other couples. I was getting excited at the prospect of living out some of our fantasies. However, I deleted the apps from my phone 3 days ago since I've discovered this community as getting photos sent to me from other couples definitely counted as porn. I'm really hoping we can dip our toes in to that lifestyle a bit but everytime I chat with prospective couple and exchange photos it is basically porn isn't it? Or could it not be as bad since they are real people and not just a fictional world?
Are there any members that are able to manage a semi-open relationship while also having success with eliminating porn and keeping great erections?
Any advice or tips as I embark on this journey would be greatly appreciated. Thank you to everyone that has put this information out there and shared your story.
I stumbled upon this community recently when I was researching ways to get harder and longer lasting erections. I definitely related to many aspects of PIED but there are others that don't necessarily apply. My wife can always get me hard and make me cum rather quickly but it is typically only semi-hard and we often either verbally fantasize about a scenario during sex, watch porn together, or read an erotic story together to get us to the point of having a great orgasm. It isn't always needed for her as I can get her to cum rather quickly with my tongue but I almost always need her to talk to me about her 'being naughty'.
We've been married for 8 years and together for 10. I've had the hotwife fantasy the entire time (turned on by the thought of her being naughty with someone else). She was always against ever doing it in real life but we did fantasize about it often during sex. Last year, out of nowhere, it actually happened for real. A coworker of hers that was often in our fantasy scenarios seduced her. They ended up having sex ongoing for 6 months before she broke it off. Her sex drive was absolutely through the roof for both of us that entire time and the two of them would have these hot and long sex sessions.
I can't often give her those same types of sexual experiences because I can't stay hard for that long. I want to get to a place that I can have a harder erection that will actually last for a long sex session. I have had a very bad porn habit for as long as I can remember. I work from home so I often would find myself lost in the world of porn for hours at a time and making myself cum multiple times a day.
Where I may differ from others is that my wife is the focal point of my fantasies 99% of the time when I am watching porn or reading erotica. I'm either searching for something to watch with her sometime and getting really turned on by the thought of it making her wet. Or I'm imaging her being in the naughty scenario of the porn I am watching (casting porn, hotwife, group sex, lesbian, cheating, office sex, threesome, etc).
Since she is the focal point of my fantasies and since she can make me semi-hard and I can always orgasm during sex......will my reboot to hard and long-lasting erections be faster than average? I'm only on day 3 of no porn and day 6 of no masturbation but I already feel like I'm in the flatline phase. My cock has seemed a lot smaller than usually the past two days and yesterday was the first day I can remember since I hit puberty that I didn't get horny even once during the day.
Are there any members that have had only moderate ED that have had really fast success at getting back to full raging hard-ons?
Are there any members that share the same hotwife fantasy and does that go away?
My wife and I had just gotten to the point that downloaded some dating apps to find threesome partners or other couples. I was getting excited at the prospect of living out some of our fantasies. However, I deleted the apps from my phone 3 days ago since I've discovered this community as getting photos sent to me from other couples definitely counted as porn. I'm really hoping we can dip our toes in to that lifestyle a bit but everytime I chat with prospective couple and exchange photos it is basically porn isn't it? Or could it not be as bad since they are real people and not just a fictional world?
Are there any members that are able to manage a semi-open relationship while also having success with eliminating porn and keeping great erections?
Any advice or tips as I embark on this journey would be greatly appreciated. Thank you to everyone that has put this information out there and shared your story.