My pied problem recently. depressed

dreiframe

New Member
Hi guys, i came across this site while googling. found a lot guides and info.
I'm a 30 years old guy, quite good looking but just no charm and never attract much girl before. in my life i only gotten 2 girlfriends only. but no sex occurred. Fast forward a bit. I starting fapping to porn at around age 17 or 18 i rmb. after about 12 years of being single. I finally found a decent girlfriend. And we have sex. To my horror i can't erect at all. I dont get arouse at all. Even she got down and blowjob me, my dick just dont have that sensitivity to get hard. even when i touch her, lick her whatsoever. Ended up she is very disappointting. Thinking maybe she is not that attractive to me. But i do tell her my problem after i found out pied and youyrbrain on porn.
Before my heavily addiction on porn 12years ago. My dick can get hard rock just by looking at girl, imagine some sex scene get my dick hard easily. even on bus. the bus jerk, my dick went hard easily.
For now all that sensation is gone.
My girlfriend told me if i have recover from pied. As she looking forward to having a good sex life with me.
I just started out the Nofap for 20days. No morning wood till now. No erection by natural. Only sometimes at night when i wan lying on bed my dick pressed against the bed. my dick get boner sometimes. but no 100% hard
Been in flatline for 20days plus. Deleted all my porn collection. My brain somehow still will think of pornscene.
Now my question is, how long will i have to cont Nofap before i can get my sensitivity back? and my brain to stop thinking or fantasize porn scene. Kinda depressed now that my girlfriend will leave me. And i will be meeting her in 5 days time. Worried about i can't get an erection with her again.
Throughout my 20days of nofap. I think my fatique slowly recover. less tired as before.
and does looking at still images of girl from facebook, movie delay the recovery from pied?
Pls help. i need some advise.
Want my normal sex life back. Pardon for my poor english.
 

dolle

Member
Hi, don't worry it  just first 20 days give You some time. It is my 7th month of reboot and I am still waiting for good wave.

Be patient!
 

dreiframe

New Member
hey, good to hear frrom you. Throughout this 7 mths are u in flatline? or can get erection naturally aalready?
 
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