Help !! Two wet dreams.in 24hr time frame

Redfire03

Active Member
So i experienced two wet dreams in a 24hr period. Both times dreaming of having sex with my wife, but both were me getting off right at penetration weird. I did have this issue several times in real life as well. But now its carried to my dreams. I am around day 65-70 days no PMO other than the wet dreams. No big changes other than morning wood this morning after my wet dream this morning. My case seams pretty siever. And thoughts?
 

vak88

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Don't worry my friend, let your body do it's thing. The point is to avoid over-exciting your brain, and going through the similar habits of PMO that you are trying to avoid. I think that's pretty normal, and can't imagine this is in anyway may slow your final recovery. (Perhaps it will feel like a set-back, but as far as I remember, it's totally normal!)
 

Redfire03

Active Member
I am doing pretty damn good. I havent had any desire to do anything..... but i do miss sex, and want to have sex. But with my divorce situation and wanting to remain faitful till its final does not help. But i do crave sex, but my body still is not responding like it should so i know i need more time.
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Redfire03

Active Member
Man this is crazy i woke up to another wet dream this morning followed by and erection not a full one tho. Maybe 80%.
 

Redfire03

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Had a few more wet dreams this week. At least two, i guess i am horney and i cant really do anything so i dream if sex with my ex.
 

DepressedAndOut

Active Member
Is there an explanation for wet dreams? Do you get them more if you're fantasying about sex or more when you're not fantasying? (or it's  not linked to that at all.)
 

gtl923

Active Member
I only get them when I'm as clean as possible for an extended period, and if I'm fantasizing I'm likely going to relapse.
 

Redfire03

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I havent had  one in a week. Haven't had any urges to MO, i am doing damn good. Also all this week i  had morning wood and my confidents is strong. But i am sure i will probably go into a flatline at some point.  80+ days clean and counting.
 

gtl923

Active Member
Congrats brother! It's always encouraging to start reaping the benefits of freedom. Just make sure to be prepared for those down-spikes and remain vigilant. They'll hit you hard sometimes.
 

Redfire03

Active Member
I am pretty good at sticking with things. So i dont have any problems with doing this really. But i do have cravings for sex in general.  But i am not pushing the issue.
 

mpkl

Active Member
I got healed up after 1-2 months of wet dreams.You are on the way to recovery.Couldnt be any better than this! Congrats :) Anything you wamt to ask send me messege
 

Redfire03

Active Member
I am close to day 90 in my reboot... in a flatline right now... i do have occasional morning erections now. But not spontaneous yet.
 

Redfire03

Active Member
Will see man. I dont expect it, i had a seiver case. I couldnt get hard to porn or anything i had to constantly play with my self only to lose it as soon as i stopped. Very sadd situation.  I am shooting for a one year recovery.
 
I think, You don't need to worry, wet dreams are normal and natural. Not all men have them. Wet dreams are caused by hormones and a romantic dream. You need both.
 
M

Mroctupus

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1_Remove the triggers, I had once and 2 days prior i saw Paris Hilton twitter .At the time i felt nothing of it as i don't really find her attractive but when you go no fap, Your brain see it as opportunity to release dopamine specially if you get the depression phase of no fap that makes brain to do it to save you from depression. 2_ try meditation or yoga and practises that calm your nerves, work out also help to release the energy you have. There are people who use the energy in creative arts as well, that you can transmute the lust you feel in a music or painting or theatre and such but I have no talent, if you are talented then you can try it too.
 

Redfire03

Active Member
I have been working out a lot. Since my hard mode started 3 months ago i have droppes from 210 to 186-193 and have put on a lot of muscle. I just focus on my diet and working out now. I did have a wet dream last week. So they have slowed down.
 
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