Age 35, Married, my first reboot attempt, Things are getting better ..

Hello Guys, please take your time to read this carefully and try to help me.
Like many other stories, i have experienced the first nude sexual content when i was so young like 10 yrs using my (DAD) VHS tapes that was hidden and i managed to find them, at that age i was watching for exploration more than arousal, but it hit me anyway, and i strated MO when i was 12 and what made it worst that i am a computer nerd, which made it easier for me to spent more time with computer in the next years, passing the VHS, and sex magazines, and after while the full CDs with full clips exchange with my nerd friends at the school,

i was very horny and i remember a day i masturbated like 7 times front of a 2 hours movie, i was around 16 then, so my PMO started very early even before the streaming porn, when i had a girl friend at the age of 16, i never had a problem with the erection from her hand stimulating me or her mouth, She was super beautiful and sexy and i was the first guy she touches ( for me She was the first and the sexiest ever), but her touch never lead me to ejaculate no matter how hard she tried, we never did PIV (real sexual intercourse,) since in my country virginity for girls is a big issue until the marriage, so we did all the sexual foreplay activity except a full sexual intercourse, every time i had to finish myself while watching her front of me naked, my eyes with my touch to my thing was more arousing for me than her touch, of course then i didn't pay attention to that and i said to myself maybe because i just get too used to solo sex while watching, and i wanna enjoy my time and enjoy my ejaculation anyway,

  we broke up after a while for non sexual reasons, and i got deeper and deeper into porn and cybersex with girls on internet on daily basis, starting internet porn era, the images, then the downloadable porn movies using P2P, just to cut it short, i had all the new porn resources ubefore the streaming, which was the boom that got me more involved, i also had many sexual experiments with different girls, never had an ejaculation once, even with full sexual intercourse, with still no any ED, when i Engaged with my current wife i was about 27 years, we were doing some of cybersex one phone with ejaculation involved, when we were together, kissing and touches were perfectly enough for hard erection,

  when we got married after a year an half, we were so open to each other and in love together we had an amazing sex relation but there was always something missing for me and that unsatisfied me, and i had hard time to ejaculate in the beginning of our marriage, but after some training i managed to ejaculate normally with her in specific position ( no other positions works for me), but unfortunately i continue to my PMO, to fill the satisfaction gap that i feel, and this started to affect my erection with time, and i started to take Viagra when i turned 30 just to enhance the erection and enjoy each other, i tried many times to stop PMO, and replace that with real sex on daily basis ( i thought i need sex daily cuz i spend years ejaculating daily), but for working mom with kids , she couldn't do that everyday like i wanted, so it was like one or two days break between our sessions,and i was PMO in the days that we dont have sex, with more life stress, ups and downs,

  i gradually started to feel that i am not satisfied with real sex , and i started to masturbate using porn even after we have sex in the same night after we finish and she sleeps, which i knew this is not normal,before i reach to this, my problem wasn't that bad, sometimes i was able to have sex in the morning with out viagra, it was like i am using morning bone , but after a while ,, i didn't get this morning bone anymore, and my ED got worst and worst, and i started to mainly depend on Viagra and using super dirty thoughts and talk during i am with her,fantasizing porn related scenarios to boost my dopamine, before i know the source of my PIED ,

  i managed to stop the PMO for 30 days, every year due to (Religion fasting during Ramadan) and i was able to have sex every few days and it was not so bad, it wasn't that hard for me to stop PMO for 30 days, because i was using my free time in other spiritual activities, recently just a month before this post, on Jan 2017, i had some stressful time, and i started to PMO like crazy, for 35 years guy 1 sex session followed by 2 PMO sessions was killing, i started to loose my focus on my work, sleepy all the time, has no power at all, dont play with my kids, all what i was thinking about is only sexual activities, also my PIED become severe and even viagra didn't work as it used to do, and that was the huge wake up for me, i started to do researches on how porn affected my sexuality, and i found all the resources and i watched most of the related videos like most of you guys, so i just decided to fix myself by cutting my PMO habit and reboot to recover,

  the last time i did PMO was on 28 Jan 2017, since then i stopped PMO completely with minimum expose to any pixels or artificial nudity on screen, even now when i scroll my facebook i just skip a bikini photos, i wanted to go on hard mood, and i talked to my wife about my ED reasons and phrased it like ( I have bad habits that caused it and i am fixing it ) but i didn't mention clearly it was an PIED, so i just told her we should slow down our sex rate to once per week as a part of my fix course, lol .. i was dreaming, we surly couldn't do it, going from 4 times a week to one time is not easy for both of us, we are in love and we love to sleep with each other even with my problem but i have an amazing attraction to her that i can't stop myself, only after 2 days from that, i woke up in the middle of the night finding myself spooning her with 50% erection, and we let it go until orgasm.

  so we talked in the second day and i told her we should keep it once per week for real, and agreed again on that, but hell !!! after 3 days of no sex, i found her in very bad mood, and i understood that she needs it, i made her get used to this, she was very natural, and she loves sleeping with me, so do i, even i am having an issue now with my erection. I need your suggestions guys, I quit porn for good and i mean it, but i can't give up my wife and sleeping with her, yesterday we had amazing sex after 4 days break, it was great, but i had a doubt my ability to have a hard erection, cuz i believe i was starting a flat-line thing, that my brain wants her so bad but my body wasn't ready yet, so i used half of the dosage of viagra that i used to take, and it worked well, but once again, after we had sex, she went to sleep, and i spend my time alone and i got the damn chaser effect to ejaculate once more, and i did masturbate to ejaculate again with no porn, only remembering her with me doing the things that turns me on.

Is this considered to be a relapse ?

Is my way to reboot is to have normal sex twice per week while stopping PMO completely gonna work even if it will take longer time?

Is small dosage of Viagra to get over my anxious will not help me to reboot ?

If you were in my place, what you gonna do ?

Thanks for reading this super long post, but i really needed to talk

I didn't read all of this, since it's way too long; but my advice is to just simply stop looking at porn, and continue with your life. Give praise to Allah that you don't look at porn anymore when you feel like doing so. It will get better.

Viagra is a tricky issue, but I personally wouldn't use it, unless I was like 70 years old. Healthy young men should not have to use medication to get an erection with a women they are attracted to.