Performance anxiety cant win this please help

A1981

New Member
Hey all
So i ve always been masturbating and always watching porn since a young age.i was watching porn when i was with my g/f and later wife without a problem,until one night after an argument,during make up sex i noticed she wasnt into it and lost my erection...ever since then i have that problem.i could get it up fine during foreplay but during insertion i lost it. Been going on for two years, currently on cialis. Blood tests,scans etc are fine. Just to say that all these caused a divorce in which during the time we where separated i increased my porn viewing.nway with another girl now which she is great..but i want to get off cialis..if stop it and watch porn etc and masturbate i am fine with her we start fine but then its like i cant feel her and i loose it..for me to finish she has to give me handjob up to a point so that i am near and then i finish inside her.
Is this due to porn? Stress and anxiety? I lost my old self and desperetely trying to be ME!
 

misc person 86

Active Member
No I'm not 100% sure. But in my experience PA and PIED symptoms are so similar. It just takes one to go too far one way and then you have your ED. In my experience, what I do know is that quitting porn will make you more responsive to natural stimuli, which will overrule the anxiety over time. You have nothing to lose quitting porn, only gains. But you need to believe it and be committed and make no excuses... Oherwise you're wasting your time.
 
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