Starting Reboot, but feel very horny and have questions

22-year-old

New Member
Hey guys, I have some questions and I'm hoping someone can help me out.

I'm 22, and I started my reboot of no PMO exactly 2 weeks ago. I started it because I had PIED, and it freaked me out. I've been masturbating probably since I was about 13 or 14 and watching porn since I was about 15 or 16. I used to PMO every night. (just once a night, though)

My question is: is it normal to be really horny? All I read in forums and YBOP is about the flat-line and people feeling asexual and low libido, but I feel hornier each day. I've been getting morning wood at about a 50% intensity almost every day, and yesterday, I started gently playing with myself (not fantasizing about anything, just focusing on sensation) and I was able to get about an 80% intensity erection. I didn't MO, though.

I also have another question. I'm bisexual, but I'm too worried about getting a girl in bed and failing to perform. Is it okay to use the Grindr app to get a guy and fool around? I know I've only been in the reboot for 2 weeks, but I'm so horny I'm considering on doing it. Do you guys think that's okay?

Thanks for any help you guys can give me. 
 

FoNap

Member
I can't really offer any advice, but I can tell you that I'm 11 days in and also getting hornier everyday.. Pretty unbearable. Feel like Flatlining would be much easy than this. Goal is 30 days no MO (then maybe once a month after that), PMO gone for life.
 

qrayzHD

Active Member
First of all i am extremely jealous that you can still feel horny even when you used porn from a young age like i did, feeling asexual when i'm not has been incredibly frustrating  :'( Rewiring with a partner is almost essential to rebooting, some people recover without rewiring but most require it. I normally recommend that people avoid orgasm for at least a couple of months, but if you feel like you are ready to have sex then by all means go for it, just avoid any porn fantasy and be wary of potential porn binges after orgasm. That's my opinion anyway.
 
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