Author Topic: How to properly use the Fleshlight for to overcome PE and Death Grip  (Read 525 times)

orgreboot

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The title say all: How to properly use the Fleshlight (male masturbator) for to cure Death Grip and Premature Ejaculation.

Some guys have used it for to cure death grip with great results, other ones for to last from 5 minutes to 15 minutes.
Excellent results, this toy works.

Premature ejaculation is the most common problem for the guys who have done the reboot, and for to fix this problem you need to have sex much and much times.

After the reboot not all have a girlfriend (like me) with which have intercourses, and not all have some much money to pay every time prostitutes for to have sex.
In this case Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit can help us.

The unique problem is: how to use it?

I read that the best way (for premature ejaculation) is NOT cum when you arrived at the point, but stop and then resume the next day always without cumming into it.

Anyone with any experience can give help us? Is this the best way? How much use the felshlight in 1 week? Edging or not?

With your experience you can help much persons.

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Re: How to properly use the Fleshlight for to overcome PE and Death Grip
« Reply #1 on: April 21, 2017, 07:41:29 AM »
I hate to be rude here, but this sounds like an incredibly stupid idea to me. First of all, it's still masturbation, which I personally have had enough of. Secondly, it's a very unnatural form of sexual contact, to be almost completely worthless in itself.

If you have premature ejaculation, I would recommend doing Kegel exercises every other day, and you'll eventually be sorted. If you don't have a partner with whom you can have sex, go find one. There are plenty of people out there who are not having sex, and want to--so, you just need to go find them (assuming you don't live in a country that forbids this).

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Re: How to properly use the Fleshlight for to overcome PE and Death Grip
« Reply #2 on: April 21, 2017, 10:14:04 AM »
First of all, it's not masturbation. In front of a wall, you have not use the hands.

Then, just go in "yourbrainrebalanced" in that forum much persons use the fleshlight and give advices on it.

We porn addicted MUST NOT DO KEGEL. Absolutely. Our PC muscle is totally broken by forcing erection in front of porn. We must do REVERSE KEGEL, for to relax the muscle.

And then, if you aren't good enough, you WON'T have the girlfriend. And we can't wait, after reboot, years or some months for to have sex. We need to rewire our brain, and the rewiring process only works through sex with REAL women, but if you haven't a girlfriend, you need to pay a prostitute, or  use with the most near thing, like Fleshlight, approximately.

Hard Mode or Monk Mode is JUST a part of process. Rewiring is the other one.

« Last Edit: April 21, 2017, 10:17:15 AM by orgreboot »

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Re: How to properly use the Fleshlight for to overcome PE and Death Grip
« Reply #3 on: April 21, 2017, 11:34:16 AM »
Forgive me for asking but if you dont have a girl friend and it will take years ? to find one, Why worry about PE ? Sounds like your brain is just tricking you into jacking off with a toy. I mean whats the difference if you jack off with toy or your hand ? Its still not contact with a real woman  so how is that going to get you anywhere ? But what do I know ? Hope it works out for you ? And if everyone over at YBB is using them why not ask them ?

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Re: How to properly use the Fleshlight for to overcome PE and Death Grip
« Reply #4 on: April 21, 2017, 12:44:02 PM »
I'm going to have to just go ahead and disagree with you ogreboot. Also, Abc brings up some rather astute questions. At any rate, it's your life, and you can do whatever you want.

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Re: How to properly use the Fleshlight for to overcome PE and Death Grip
« Reply #5 on: April 21, 2017, 01:21:48 PM »
Guys, i just say that much persons, using the fleshlight, have fixed PE and Death Grip.

I think that this is a good new for much persons.

Don't you think? Anyway, if you want share some advices about the properly use of the fleshlight, you're welcome.

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Re: How to properly use the Fleshlight for to overcome PE and Death Grip
« Reply #6 on: April 21, 2017, 04:37:28 PM »
i agree with death trap and Abc kind of saw through the real intention behind that fleshlight, which is to keep the dopamine rolling one way (porn) or another (masturbation or anything else that can be done alone and well within your comfort zone).

quitting porn also means advancing in life with confidence, work on other areas such as expanding your comfort zone. quitting porn is crucial part for happy life if you are addicted to it but once you quit or while you are quitting life goes on and you can expand and find joy instead of mimic your porn use with some other behavior. i think paying prostitutes is bad idea too. very bad idea, some guys got back into PMO through prostitutes and also had ED with real partners but not with prostitutes. you should really change the whole view on girls and relationship with them. why cant you find a girlfriend? why limit yourself that much? why you believe that it takes years to have sex? you can work on that.

quit porn but tackle other things in life like limiting beliefs and expand your comfort zone which basically means do something you want to do but is uncomfortable, like meeting new girls! live life, fuck the toys! i mean, dont fuck toys!
« Last Edit: April 21, 2017, 04:39:32 PM by Nikola Numez »
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Re: How to properly use the Fleshlight for to overcome PE and Death Grip
« Reply #7 on: April 21, 2017, 05:16:24 PM »
You are on to something. My pelvic floor is fucked. Pelvic floor specialists have never found a dude with such tight bc muscles in men. The only thing they don't seem to know about is reverse kegels... that may be the answer... do you know a good guide for them? All I've found so far is you kind of push the muscle and do belly breathing and try to relax.
I've tried seperating the front and back muscle but when ever i push out i activate one more than the other (depending on what im trying to focus on).

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Re: How to properly use the Fleshlight for to overcome PE and Death Grip
« Reply #8 on: April 22, 2017, 09:24:19 AM »
You are on to something. My pelvic floor is fucked. Pelvic floor specialists have never found a dude with such tight bc muscles in men. The only thing they don't seem to know about is reverse kegels... that may be the answer... do you know a good guide for them? All I've found so far is you kind of push the muscle and do belly breathing and try to relax.
I've tried seperating the front and back muscle but when ever i push out i activate one more than the other (depending on what im trying to focus on).
The best explanation I've seen for what reverse kegels entail is that everything down there feels a lot looser when you do them. It kind feels like your entire genital region expands outwards like one of those blowfish (although the feeling is an illusion).

Reverse kegels are great for stopping ejaculation. During my PMO days (thank God those are over!) I could pretty much stop ejaculation immediately. This is especially effective when combined with regular ones.