Need help, dating a beautiful woman and don't want my PIED to ruin it.

So I've been seeing this girl for about a month now, and I have really strong feelings for her. We had sex for the first time a week ago, but it was far from easy. For the first time in my life, my penis went soft when I was about to penetrate. I was as hard as a rock prior to that, but it seems like performance anxiety got the best of me. But thankfully I was able to get hard again and satisfy her, but I couldn't ejaculate. Fast forward to a week later, (aka last night) and the same thing happened. Once again I had trouble staying hard, and couldn't ejaculate. It's pretty common for me to not ejaculate the first time I am with a woman because of nerves, but never in my life has it happened twice, and I've never had trouble staying hard. I recently heard about Gabe Deem and his talks on PIED and I can't think of anything else that would be causing this. I have been single for about 4 years now, and I had a serious porn addiction, it was really bad. I would come home from work and masturbate for hours to porn, which I think is contributing to my inability to ejaculate with her. I just want to solve this problem as soon as possible. I've read mixed things on here, some saying not to masturbate or look at porn, others saying that's bad because it will kill your libido, so you should masturbate without porn. Any help would be greatly appreciated, I just want things to work out between me and her.

Hey man. Long time recovered severe pied case here. You almost certainly have temporary ED and/or DE caused by porn use. I would recommend you see a doctor though to make certain that there are no other physical factors.

I recovered after several months of no masturbation and no looking at porn. My symptoms were far more severe than yours at its worst point. You WILL make a complete recovery but only if you kill this addiction. Get educated. It will be a bumpy ride during the reboot. Watch all of Gabe's videos. Don't worry so much about the girl - just take care of what you need to do and everything will fall in line with time. Best of luck friend. Praying for you.