(how) Can i reboot only by myself?

Sirpsycho89

New Member
I just gonna qoute here my question that i aked on noFap on reddit and i felt that there on noFap reddit-community no one would(and didnt) answer me that question cause they focus only on noFap. :D I hope u get what i mean.
im like 130+days no porn (few slips).

here it is that quote(with edit at the end):

I wanna REBOOTERS -not NOFAPERS(Yes, its different thing. No offence guys im noFapper too and wanna become rebooter, and i think the answer will be useful for You and me ;D) - to answer me about question from topic, but read on. After those almost 130 days in my streak of abstinence: i wanna finaly start rebooting. Cause noFap itself isnt enougth to reboot as You know(or not) from many materiials/communities-reebotnation etc. Im thinking about starting to VERY SOFTLY masturbate, but with no any stimulus.. the only stimulus will be the sensation - focusing on it(haha its like meditation based on focusing on breath), and not paying atention to any imagination that might come up. * And my question related to that from topic is:
Can i reboot to pleasure only by physical sensation(no visiual stimulus) -only by myself??(and it is healthy for mentality??) cause i know the best way is when we have woman and she helps us and then we're rebooting our pleasure responce to her touch/smells/natural looks etc insted to porn or imagination based on porn. But what if i got right now no woman to make rebooted myself with? I dont wanna stay in one place by only noFaping  - cause as You know - miracles wont come up by doing nothing(but of corse: noFap is FUNDAMENTAL/NESSESARY to even start reboot. There is no reboot without noFap) and i wanna be already rebooted even a little when i finaly get a right women. After those 120- days i think now its the best time for me to start the reboot to having pleasure from touch. I think if i dont do it now it will only be delayed -waste of time(by only just noPMO). In short words: i wanna start SOFTLY masturbate and use a pussyToy for it ->hell, i already started doing it and feels fine, i mean i just touch my D. by ONLY a pillow of my finger and when it gets hard(yea it gets hard by that kind of little touch) i start using pussytoy, and my dick is all the time hard inside it. And i dont do it to fill my cravings.. im mindfull while doing it.. and before i start i dont have any urge do O. i honestly do it just in the name of reboot and eventualy i wanna just see how im gonna react in any technique of penetration -some kinde of training, with still no any intention to have orgasm). What You guys think? Or maybe that post is usless cause im rebooted to that little touch i mentioned - haha, i answered my question by myself. :D :D  What could happen if that touch would be woman touch... im so wonder! Anyway, write me what do You think -if i should do that kind of masturbation or better stay away from it?
Im hopeful for the answer!
Stay strong brothers!
 

Reboot_Dude

Active Member
Nothing you can do by yourself will ever prepare your mind and body for being with an actual person. All you can do is find someone you are comfortable with and take it slow, if things don't work straight away, talk about it. Fucking a fleshlight only serves to undo the great work you have already done.
 
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