It's august 7th, so that makes it almost 7 months since I started the hardmode reboot. Since I started I haven't masturbated or watched porn whatsoever. During the first 6 months I did not have any orgasms, other than two wetdreams. Things were looking up and still do.
At the end of the six month streak I was getting more confident. At the same time I still had periods (days sometimes a little more) of anxiety and flatline. I think people call that PAWS or something. During the last 40 days I got in contact with two girls which resulted in having sex with both of them the last 3 weeks.
With both girls I had succesful sex. I wouldn't say it was the best sex I ever had and it was fragile, but at least I had an erection and I could actually enjoy the situation, myself and the girls. That really gave me a boost in confidence and the first time I got some kind of confirmation that I was on the right track.
About 5 days ago I went on another date with one of the girls. We did lot's of kissing, but no sex. After that, I had high excitement levels for about 2 days. I would even get an erection when I just received an app message. I also struggled with sexual fantasies popping up again, but they were all about her so I thought it might be part of the whole thingy.
Than, 2 days ago, I met up with her again. I didn't feel anything. It was all plain, no attraction really. I was still confident that it would come later that evening. But even when we had a laugh, started kissing, I felt nothing really. Her great seduction techniques wouldn't help. I didn't want to have sex with her. I did it anyways. Sometimes there would be spikes of libido. I would have an erection for like 30 to 60 seconds and than all my attention and interest would fade away and go completely flat.
I was struggling all the time. She was completely cool with it, but for me it was such a disappointment. I was making so much good progress and now, it seems like I am exactly where I started 7 months ago. Right now I am in a flatline again.
I cannot even feel angry anymore. I don't have answers and I feel down and disappointed.. I am not sure this reboot is the right path.. I went so deep and now it all seems to be for nothing.
Anybody has experiences like this after such a long time of rebooting? Is this all part of it? Did I do anything wrong?
I really don't know what to do.. If there is anybody with advice, I would be so grateful
At the end of the six month streak I was getting more confident. At the same time I still had periods (days sometimes a little more) of anxiety and flatline. I think people call that PAWS or something. During the last 40 days I got in contact with two girls which resulted in having sex with both of them the last 3 weeks.
With both girls I had succesful sex. I wouldn't say it was the best sex I ever had and it was fragile, but at least I had an erection and I could actually enjoy the situation, myself and the girls. That really gave me a boost in confidence and the first time I got some kind of confirmation that I was on the right track.
About 5 days ago I went on another date with one of the girls. We did lot's of kissing, but no sex. After that, I had high excitement levels for about 2 days. I would even get an erection when I just received an app message. I also struggled with sexual fantasies popping up again, but they were all about her so I thought it might be part of the whole thingy.
Than, 2 days ago, I met up with her again. I didn't feel anything. It was all plain, no attraction really. I was still confident that it would come later that evening. But even when we had a laugh, started kissing, I felt nothing really. Her great seduction techniques wouldn't help. I didn't want to have sex with her. I did it anyways. Sometimes there would be spikes of libido. I would have an erection for like 30 to 60 seconds and than all my attention and interest would fade away and go completely flat.
I was struggling all the time. She was completely cool with it, but for me it was such a disappointment. I was making so much good progress and now, it seems like I am exactly where I started 7 months ago. Right now I am in a flatline again.
I cannot even feel angry anymore. I don't have answers and I feel down and disappointed.. I am not sure this reboot is the right path.. I went so deep and now it all seems to be for nothing.
Anybody has experiences like this after such a long time of rebooting? Is this all part of it? Did I do anything wrong?
I really don't know what to do.. If there is anybody with advice, I would be so grateful