Hi everyone and thanks in advance for your opinions and advice. I don't know all of the acronyms so please bear with me. Okay so here's my story & situation.
I'm in my early 50's and started looking at porn magazines when I was around 13-14 years old. I masturbated to naked hot girls pics in Penthouse, playboy, Cheri etc. magazines. I stayed in this mode for several years until I moved out of my parents house and then I would rent Porn video tapes from time to time. I got married pretty young at 23 and my wife would watch some porn videos with me every so often but she really didn't enjoy it and after a few times said that she prefer that I didn't watch porn either while we were having sex as she felt that I was more into the girl on the screen than into her which wasn't true in many cases. From them on my porn watching would be in my private alone time when she wasn't around. I would rent movies when she was out of town for work or other things. I eventually bought some of my own porn videos and would watch them when she wasn't around but I was also still masturbating to porn mags as well, mostly to de=stress and sleep good at night. If I had a headache I found that if I masturbated it would usually help get rid of my headache in most cases but it really did help me to relax and tire me out enough to get a good nights sleep! I wasn't doing this on a daily basis more like a couple to few times per week. I had no ED issues at this time and this went into my early 40s.
Well then internet porn comes along and I found YouPorn, holy crap I couldn't believe all of the porn that was on there for free! I would watch internet porn a few times a week for about 30 mins. at a time and masturbate to it, a lot of times I would watch it before bed so that I could distress and get a good nights sleep! My wife and I had 2 sons when I was in my mid to late 30's, I had a vasectomy done when I was around 40. I started having some ED issues in my mid 40's where I could get an erection but I had a hard time maintaining it if it was vaginal sex and when I got an erection I would need to get inside of her pretty quickly so that I could get some action going so that I wouldn't lose it. I went to the Dr. and he prescribed some ED pills (none of my Drs. have ever asked me about watching porn or how often that I masturbated) which have somewhat helped with the issue but not fully plus I wasn't having the full hard of erections as I used to have. When I had a job that I was able to work from home I would find my self looking at internet porn on a daily basis during the work week maybe 3 times a day for 20 minutes at a time. I never got into any really weird porn but my porn selections definitely were different than when I first started watching internet porn. Up until about a week ago I have been watching internet porn about 4 times a week for about 20 minutes per session and masturbating to it without any issues. I came across some information and this website about a week ago as I still am having trouble maintaining an erection but I can get an erection and keep it if my wife and I just have oral sex without any pills! We usually start with oral and then work into vaginal but while doing that I need to get inside of her as quickly as possible to maintain my erection and change positions a couple of times as well.
My main question is this do you think that my issues are related to my age and are true ED in nature or do you think that watching the porn has a lot to do with my erection issue as well? I would like to have a happy healthy sex life again and get off of these damn ED pills as I don't like the side effects of them. I'm willing to give this an honest try and not watch any porn for awhile and see what happens. How long do you think that it might take in my case to get back to a normal sex life? As I said I'm not watching really strange weird bondage stuff or anything like that on you porn just pretty much straight single girl and guy or threesome porn, some girl anal porn here and there and I do find that I really like watching younger college age girls porn. I'm open to any opinions and suggestions.
I'm in my early 50's and started looking at porn magazines when I was around 13-14 years old. I masturbated to naked hot girls pics in Penthouse, playboy, Cheri etc. magazines. I stayed in this mode for several years until I moved out of my parents house and then I would rent Porn video tapes from time to time. I got married pretty young at 23 and my wife would watch some porn videos with me every so often but she really didn't enjoy it and after a few times said that she prefer that I didn't watch porn either while we were having sex as she felt that I was more into the girl on the screen than into her which wasn't true in many cases. From them on my porn watching would be in my private alone time when she wasn't around. I would rent movies when she was out of town for work or other things. I eventually bought some of my own porn videos and would watch them when she wasn't around but I was also still masturbating to porn mags as well, mostly to de=stress and sleep good at night. If I had a headache I found that if I masturbated it would usually help get rid of my headache in most cases but it really did help me to relax and tire me out enough to get a good nights sleep! I wasn't doing this on a daily basis more like a couple to few times per week. I had no ED issues at this time and this went into my early 40s.
Well then internet porn comes along and I found YouPorn, holy crap I couldn't believe all of the porn that was on there for free! I would watch internet porn a few times a week for about 30 mins. at a time and masturbate to it, a lot of times I would watch it before bed so that I could distress and get a good nights sleep! My wife and I had 2 sons when I was in my mid to late 30's, I had a vasectomy done when I was around 40. I started having some ED issues in my mid 40's where I could get an erection but I had a hard time maintaining it if it was vaginal sex and when I got an erection I would need to get inside of her pretty quickly so that I could get some action going so that I wouldn't lose it. I went to the Dr. and he prescribed some ED pills (none of my Drs. have ever asked me about watching porn or how often that I masturbated) which have somewhat helped with the issue but not fully plus I wasn't having the full hard of erections as I used to have. When I had a job that I was able to work from home I would find my self looking at internet porn on a daily basis during the work week maybe 3 times a day for 20 minutes at a time. I never got into any really weird porn but my porn selections definitely were different than when I first started watching internet porn. Up until about a week ago I have been watching internet porn about 4 times a week for about 20 minutes per session and masturbating to it without any issues. I came across some information and this website about a week ago as I still am having trouble maintaining an erection but I can get an erection and keep it if my wife and I just have oral sex without any pills! We usually start with oral and then work into vaginal but while doing that I need to get inside of her as quickly as possible to maintain my erection and change positions a couple of times as well.
My main question is this do you think that my issues are related to my age and are true ED in nature or do you think that watching the porn has a lot to do with my erection issue as well? I would like to have a happy healthy sex life again and get off of these damn ED pills as I don't like the side effects of them. I'm willing to give this an honest try and not watch any porn for awhile and see what happens. How long do you think that it might take in my case to get back to a normal sex life? As I said I'm not watching really strange weird bondage stuff or anything like that on you porn just pretty much straight single girl and guy or threesome porn, some girl anal porn here and there and I do find that I really like watching younger college age girls porn. I'm open to any opinions and suggestions.