ratgeezer300
Member
Hey everyone,
I'm currently on day 222 of no porn and day 108 of no MO, so things are going really well with this reboot - except for one thing. I'm having a hard time not fantasising or keeping sexual thoughts at bay - as well as a 'counter' for days of no porn and days of no MO, I also have a counter for days of not fantasising (today is currently day 1) - does fantasising count as a relapse? I only really do it just before I fall asleep at night or just as I wake up in the morning
I understand that obviously fantasising is not ideal but how seriously should I treat it - is it more that I'm more likely to relapse with PMO if I fantasize or is the fantasising in itself a relapse? I feel like I'm being harsh on myself too - I tend to reset my 'no fantasising counter' if I fantasize for like a minute - also, is it normal to be this far in your reboot and still be fantasising alot? Basically I don't know if this is a problem or just something that can be expected from a 25yr old guy who hasn't MO'd in 108 days
It should be noted that the fantasising, while sexual in nature, is about real people and not porn and sometimes isn't even always sexual, it can be romantic things too - does this change anything?
I'm currently on day 222 of no porn and day 108 of no MO, so things are going really well with this reboot - except for one thing. I'm having a hard time not fantasising or keeping sexual thoughts at bay - as well as a 'counter' for days of no porn and days of no MO, I also have a counter for days of not fantasising (today is currently day 1) - does fantasising count as a relapse? I only really do it just before I fall asleep at night or just as I wake up in the morning
I understand that obviously fantasising is not ideal but how seriously should I treat it - is it more that I'm more likely to relapse with PMO if I fantasize or is the fantasising in itself a relapse? I feel like I'm being harsh on myself too - I tend to reset my 'no fantasising counter' if I fantasize for like a minute - also, is it normal to be this far in your reboot and still be fantasising alot? Basically I don't know if this is a problem or just something that can be expected from a 25yr old guy who hasn't MO'd in 108 days
It should be noted that the fantasising, while sexual in nature, is about real people and not porn and sometimes isn't even always sexual, it can be romantic things too - does this change anything?