WoundedSparrow
Active Member
3 days ago, I celebrated 30 straight days without porn or masturbation. I was on the road to recovery. The day after, an unexpected trigger caused me to masturbate. No big deal, right? Stay vigilant and keep at it. Today, just now, I PMO'd and I'm beside myself. It's my own damn fault. I let myself be tempted. I let myself look at... things. It was as though this last month taught me absolutely nothing. The dopamine was heightened after the other night's "episode" and my brain's neurons were stronger than my will. I argued in my own head and tried to talk myself down. I fought every step of the way, but I still lost. Even a second of weakness gave way to more. I was powerless. I watched my dreams of recovery melt before my very eyes as I relapsed into a pattern I told myself I'd never repeat again. I was powerless to stop it. Once instinct and routine took over, all I could do is watch. It felt like my mind was an impenetrable fortress, then a feather landed on top and it all came crumbling down. I was so proud of myself. So determined. 30 days of sobriety did nothing. The neural pathways in my head that are addicted to porn are still as strong as ever. My willpower is weak now. I had a golden opportunity and I blew it. I don't know when I'll be able to muster up the strength to try to kick my addiction again. Even now as I sit here typing this I think, "Might as well do another one. If you're going to relapse might as well go all-in." I know that's insane, but sometimes it happens. I feel like I just lost everything. I can't go back to who I was. My brain can't collapse again. What do I do? Can anyone help me? I never dreamed I could go from so high to so low over so little time. I've lost it all. How can I get it back? I'll do anything.