Asian_Stoner
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Dear friends,
Something is occuring to me - becoming apparent. I am trying my best to leave porn alone. Yeah, not easy. Its hooks are quite deep. Im a mature man - 48. On this so called no fap journey, I have success, then failure , again and again. Good streaks of abstainence , then a few binges before i begin again in ernest. But , it seems to me that many men, including myself, really beat themselves down harshly if they relapase . It can be soul crushing. I will cut to the chase here and not draw this out. Yes, we all agree, porn is bad news. Addictions are serious and this whole no fap thing is a move in the right direction . BUT, can we as men give ourselves a slight bit of leeway here. Transmuting sexual energy is not fucking easy. We are human. I find increasingly in the no fap commuity, that the people we follow ( on you tube for eg ) make out that slipping up and having a tug is somehow the most despicable thing on the planet. It really isnt. It just isnt. Yeah its no the best thing either - but for fucks sake - can we relax these fucking made up laws ????? Jut my thoughts today ( yeah you giessed it .. I relapsed... damn.
Something is occuring to me - becoming apparent. I am trying my best to leave porn alone. Yeah, not easy. Its hooks are quite deep. Im a mature man - 48. On this so called no fap journey, I have success, then failure , again and again. Good streaks of abstainence , then a few binges before i begin again in ernest. But , it seems to me that many men, including myself, really beat themselves down harshly if they relapase . It can be soul crushing. I will cut to the chase here and not draw this out. Yes, we all agree, porn is bad news. Addictions are serious and this whole no fap thing is a move in the right direction . BUT, can we as men give ourselves a slight bit of leeway here. Transmuting sexual energy is not fucking easy. We are human. I find increasingly in the no fap commuity, that the people we follow ( on you tube for eg ) make out that slipping up and having a tug is somehow the most despicable thing on the planet. It really isnt. It just isnt. Yeah its no the best thing either - but for fucks sake - can we relax these fucking made up laws ????? Jut my thoughts today ( yeah you giessed it .. I relapsed... damn.