So my name is Josh I just turned 17 years old recently. Ive had some form of ed/performance anxiety since i was around 13-14 i first noticed. I could've lost my v card 6 or so times by now but i just cant get hard and when i do i cant keep it.
Most recent occurrence was about a week ago. Before i get into that im going to describe myself so you guys get an idea. Im a pretty confident guy, im always trying to improve myself and chase my passions. I dont let stuff get to me but this ed or whatever it may be really has me in a slump and im depressed to an extent and im usually always happy.
Ok onto the story, i been dating this girl for a little over a month and we get very intimate makeout sessions and ive made her orgasm plenty. But whenever we try to have sex i cant get hard or keep the erection when i get in position to put it in her thats when it goes away. Also, i get minimal pleasure from her sucking me off and or giving me an hj. I think i have a ratio of 70% performance anxiety and 30% pied. Reason being is because i can get hard on my own without porn very easy and its rock hard. (Quit porn last month and was able to drop it easy) but i watched porn like 3-4 times daily since i was 12 until last month so i think my brain may be desensitized because of porn but i think performance anxiety is the bigger problem for me. Any help or response would be greatly appreciated this time is tough for me.
Also it seems as if i cant get aroused by girls doing things to me but i get aroused fingering her, making out, sucking tits etc. just not when she trys pleasing me. Its always been this way :/
Most recent occurrence was about a week ago. Before i get into that im going to describe myself so you guys get an idea. Im a pretty confident guy, im always trying to improve myself and chase my passions. I dont let stuff get to me but this ed or whatever it may be really has me in a slump and im depressed to an extent and im usually always happy.
Ok onto the story, i been dating this girl for a little over a month and we get very intimate makeout sessions and ive made her orgasm plenty. But whenever we try to have sex i cant get hard or keep the erection when i get in position to put it in her thats when it goes away. Also, i get minimal pleasure from her sucking me off and or giving me an hj. I think i have a ratio of 70% performance anxiety and 30% pied. Reason being is because i can get hard on my own without porn very easy and its rock hard. (Quit porn last month and was able to drop it easy) but i watched porn like 3-4 times daily since i was 12 until last month so i think my brain may be desensitized because of porn but i think performance anxiety is the bigger problem for me. Any help or response would be greatly appreciated this time is tough for me.
Also it seems as if i cant get aroused by girls doing things to me but i get aroused fingering her, making out, sucking tits etc. just not when she trys pleasing me. Its always been this way :/
