Philgood63
Active Member
Hey all,
So here am I again (and again...), giving this thing a new (new...) try, 3 monthes after I had given up, I thought once and for all. I think I was desperate not to see any improvement, constantly losing my focus... The reboot had become just another way for me to lose, just one more fail in my life. Well I was wrong of course, but I needed to have a rest and figure this out. I did not really binged during those weeks. I look at P of course, I did PMO yes, but it was not as "before", when I first discovered all that shit, when I didn't know YBOP and RN, when I did not see the problem, finally when I thought that this would represent the rest of my life : PMO / sleep / work / PMO / sleep / work... Now I know that's not a fate, but that's hard work to overcome this and I losed my forces along this long road.
So what's new ? Why am I back on there ? As I said, I did not binged, but I gradually went through same old pattern with PMO, finally losing any interest in it, but unable not to get back to it, as for any drug of course. I was losing my time, more than anything, and did not get any pleasure in return. I was stuck again in this pattern, I was an addict again even if the dose was lighter than before. I was fed up with this.
I don't want to say any more that I'm strong, that I will bravely fight PMO as if it was the dragon, that "this was my last relapse", blah blah blah... OK, I already did this, I had to do this and we all have to (well, it's my opinion, don't know if it's true for anyone), but now is a second phase. Now I know my ennemy and I know he's far stronger than me. I know I'm not strong, let's be realistic, I'm half depressed, alone, and I carry on ten years of PMO in my back... I know that my one and only force is my persistance, and my ability to get up any time I will fall, and I know I will fall. I don't care. I will improve my skills to raise up anyway, that's the only thing that counts for me.
I will not write so much in this thread, I will not write any time I fail, but I will keep the contact with the forum and try not to lose my goal. I just want to keep fighting and being a better man at the end of the day.
So here am I again (and again...), giving this thing a new (new...) try, 3 monthes after I had given up, I thought once and for all. I think I was desperate not to see any improvement, constantly losing my focus... The reboot had become just another way for me to lose, just one more fail in my life. Well I was wrong of course, but I needed to have a rest and figure this out. I did not really binged during those weeks. I look at P of course, I did PMO yes, but it was not as "before", when I first discovered all that shit, when I didn't know YBOP and RN, when I did not see the problem, finally when I thought that this would represent the rest of my life : PMO / sleep / work / PMO / sleep / work... Now I know that's not a fate, but that's hard work to overcome this and I losed my forces along this long road.
So what's new ? Why am I back on there ? As I said, I did not binged, but I gradually went through same old pattern with PMO, finally losing any interest in it, but unable not to get back to it, as for any drug of course. I was losing my time, more than anything, and did not get any pleasure in return. I was stuck again in this pattern, I was an addict again even if the dose was lighter than before. I was fed up with this.
I don't want to say any more that I'm strong, that I will bravely fight PMO as if it was the dragon, that "this was my last relapse", blah blah blah... OK, I already did this, I had to do this and we all have to (well, it's my opinion, don't know if it's true for anyone), but now is a second phase. Now I know my ennemy and I know he's far stronger than me. I know I'm not strong, let's be realistic, I'm half depressed, alone, and I carry on ten years of PMO in my back... I know that my one and only force is my persistance, and my ability to get up any time I will fall, and I know I will fall. I don't care. I will improve my skills to raise up anyway, that's the only thing that counts for me.
I will not write so much in this thread, I will not write any time I fail, but I will keep the contact with the forum and try not to lose my goal. I just want to keep fighting and being a better man at the end of the day.