Yo,
My story is:
I am 26yo right now, didn't have any GF for 3 years since now, and this is probably reason I felt into ED problems, cuz during that time of course I was fapping regularly. Well I was never hardcore porn maniac, I had times when I was doing it frequently 1 time a day, then 1 time per 2 days, or 2 times per day. Didn't watch at all any hardcore stuff, also didn't need deathgrip, maybe sometimes after I had days when I fapped 4 times or more then it was helpful but never really did this.
For 1 month I am meeting with GF and 2 weeks ago we were close to having sex (she had period but still she wanted to do it but I lost conndoms, but still I couldnt get hard and was thinking it might be ED caused by fapping and porn what I heard about but never though it will be mine problem). Last 3 days we wanted have sex but I had problems with getting haard and even I got hard I couldn;t maintain in especially in her, after I put in her and after few moves penis was not hard anymore. We stopped it and just made it with hands and tongues. Even that I had problems maintaining erection while BJ, when she was doing handjob everything was fine I got hard rock and came but it still took me some times it wasn't fast but I came 3 times.
We talked a little about this problem I think she is great girl and understood all of that of course she had an idea its her fault, I explained her it is probably because I did it for long time only with hand and read that it might cause this problem.
The question is that should I go hardcore mode? If yes then shouild I just avoid my orgasms or stop playing with her aswell?
The other thing is I had very low sensation when she was doing BJ to me or I was in her. It worries me a little cuz not being hard is one thing but almost no pleasure from BJ or being in GF really makes me worry. I had very good sensation from her handjob and also better orgasm than I have ddoing it by myself but almost no sensation with BJ or sex what I mentioned.
What should be good plan for me right now? I am also considering going to doctor, make bloodtests to check testosterone level and other things.
My story is:
I am 26yo right now, didn't have any GF for 3 years since now, and this is probably reason I felt into ED problems, cuz during that time of course I was fapping regularly. Well I was never hardcore porn maniac, I had times when I was doing it frequently 1 time a day, then 1 time per 2 days, or 2 times per day. Didn't watch at all any hardcore stuff, also didn't need deathgrip, maybe sometimes after I had days when I fapped 4 times or more then it was helpful but never really did this.
For 1 month I am meeting with GF and 2 weeks ago we were close to having sex (she had period but still she wanted to do it but I lost conndoms, but still I couldnt get hard and was thinking it might be ED caused by fapping and porn what I heard about but never though it will be mine problem). Last 3 days we wanted have sex but I had problems with getting haard and even I got hard I couldn;t maintain in especially in her, after I put in her and after few moves penis was not hard anymore. We stopped it and just made it with hands and tongues. Even that I had problems maintaining erection while BJ, when she was doing handjob everything was fine I got hard rock and came but it still took me some times it wasn't fast but I came 3 times.
We talked a little about this problem I think she is great girl and understood all of that of course she had an idea its her fault, I explained her it is probably because I did it for long time only with hand and read that it might cause this problem.
The question is that should I go hardcore mode? If yes then shouild I just avoid my orgasms or stop playing with her aswell?
The other thing is I had very low sensation when she was doing BJ to me or I was in her. It worries me a little cuz not being hard is one thing but almost no pleasure from BJ or being in GF really makes me worry. I had very good sensation from her handjob and also better orgasm than I have ddoing it by myself but almost no sensation with BJ or sex what I mentioned.
What should be good plan for me right now? I am also considering going to doctor, make bloodtests to check testosterone level and other things.