90+ days of no pmo

KMD

Member
Here's my situation:
- So it's been 90+ days of no pmo
- No real urge to go back to porn
- Morning wood is consistent
- I'm on the wrong side of 50
- Would say the porn addiction has been going on for ~6yrs
- I'm friends with several woman, but there aren't any "prospects"

So now what? Continue with the no mo? Go mo with or without fantasy? Edge?

I understand the best would be to find an understanding woman and rewire, but that's not going to happen soon. And i understand also that it may require a "leap of faith" and go in for the next encounter not knowing the outcome, but it would definitely help the confidence level to have some "proof" things are more likely than not to work.

 

Mathgreen

Member
So... you are almost there, you just need to practice real sex, you will strugly probably more than once, but you must be courage and brave, try try try and try and you will reach this
 

beggsie

Member
Definitely stay away from porn, which you are doing anyway which is great. You could try masturbation without porn fantasy, but that could possibly mean going back into flatline. If you feel in control I would stay away from MO too that could lead you back to porn. Keep up the good work man.
 

Mathgreen

Member
i didnt recover yet, but i have a different vision. Misturbation withouth anything could be  BIG TRIGGER , so man... be aware, try real women, its the best and the health way to do it
 

KMD

Member
Thanks.. I truly believe that porn isn't going to be an issue for me anymore. It was always a means to an end rather than The Thing. I can mo without the p, or fantasizing with the p, I.e., just with the physical.

Trying with the real thing would be ideal, but I've never been good at the "game"... was hoping there might be a different option I could go with.
 
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