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Just Want To Love Again...
« on: February 26, 2017, 06:09:22 PM »
Have just recently come to terms with how distant I am from my family and wife. I'm taking the first step here to put porn aside and work on better communication, so begins day 1.

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Re: Just Want To Love Again...
« Reply #1 on: February 26, 2017, 08:28:54 PM »
Each day that you stay away from porn you will find yourself growing closer to your wife and family.
Keep it real. As in real women.

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Re: Just Want To Love Again...
« Reply #2 on: February 27, 2017, 12:39:20 PM »
One day at a time  :)

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Re: Just Want To Love Again...
« Reply #3 on: March 01, 2017, 12:42:35 PM »
Forgot to post yesterday but still doing good. Wife is very supportive, I know I'd fail if I wasn't able to talk to her when I feel like relapsing.

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« Reply #4 on: March 02, 2017, 08:12:30 PM »
It must be such a relief that you can talk to your wife about this. Obviously she thinks you're worth it!
Keep it real. As in real women.

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Re: Just Want To Love Again...
« Reply #5 on: March 03, 2017, 10:21:33 AM »
To misquote some makeup ad... of course he's worth it!

Well done coming here. And welcome.

There's a lot of support here if you need it.
I'm here to help and be helped, support and be supported.

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Re: Just Want To Love Again...
« Reply #6 on: March 20, 2017, 06:31:52 PM »
Doing so much better, starting to get erections/sanity back and really couldn't have done it without such a supportive partner. Been going strong for nearly a month now. Thanks for the support folks :)

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« Reply #7 on: March 20, 2017, 10:50:55 PM »
Way to go! Check back in with the forums once in awhile... daily if possible... this demon is insidious and we all need on-going support.
Keep it real. As in real women.

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« Reply #8 on: March 21, 2017, 03:59:31 AM »
I agree - even if I don't have anything to say, I visit the forum pretty much every day to keep myself on track. I've certainly found that 3 or 4 days without it and the chimp in my head starts to get restless!

Glad to hear that all is going well. Don't forget to come here if things get tough, or even if they don't!
I'm here to help and be helped, support and be supported.