A message from a 38 year old man to the teen forum

jimmytk420

New Member
Hiya. If you're sat there thinking "I want to give up porn," think of it this way.

I'm a 38 year old man, and I wish I'd said no to porn when I was your age. But I didn't. Or more like, I said no, and then said yes again, and then said no, and yes, and no, and yes, and no, and yes... and in the years between the ages of 16 (when I first nicked a porn mag from my brother's bedside drawer) to the age of 38, I was trapped in a cycle of revulsion, repentance and relapse.

And this habit developed from magazines, to the internet, to chat rooms, to Skype and other messaging services, to actually meeting up with someone from online and having sex with them in a hotel room whilst my wife thought that I was away on a work conference.

And when it all came to light, I nearly lost everything. I could have lost my marriage, my job, my children, the reputation I'd built up over the years... I lost so much when it all came to light but I was able to rebuild.

And if you look on the 30s / 40s forums, you'll see many other guys like me. Some of us have managed to make things right; some of us have ended up wrecking their whole lives. There are people who have ended up arrested for possession of child porn... there are people who have ended up down all kinds of avenues that their teenage selves would have never thought likely.

So please, make a choice today. And keep making that choice. When you're depressed, make that choice. When you've been dumped, make that choice. When you're a bit tired and horny, make that choice. If one person reads this and makes a life-time choice to stay away from porn, then I'll be pleased.

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Electronic Husky

Guest
I will try.My sexual drive is distorted now.
And my life will be certainly out of control if i dont stop now.
It is my last chance...
 
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