Any tips on overcoming addiction to porn and gay hook up apps like Grindr/Scruff/Recon/Tinder WHILE still trying to date? (I copied this to do main Porn Addiction Forum but I'm not sure if this post should go here instead??)
A little about me, 32, gay, single guy and using gay dating apps to excess. I have horrible luck meeting guys on these apps yet I'm still on them at any given moment. I just learned about PIED in the last week, so this is quite new and I'm still getting my head around accepting that I'm addicted to porn. Plus I think I'm more addicted to the apps than porn itself.
I use these apps because I'm single and feel lonely. I want to meet and date someone but as an introvert, apps are my go-to. Plus I don't want to hitting on a straight guy at the grocery store, or gym or work or whatever because of the risk of getting beaten up or accused of sexual harassment.
So if I give up porn, what happens when a guy sends me his nudes? Have I broken my pledge? How will that affect the rebooting of my brain?
And if I give up PMO but meet up with this guy, have a nice date and eventually have sex, is that breaking the "MO" part in "PMO"? Again, how's that gonna affect my brain and recovery from PIED?
Or am I just not ready to date yet so should I just delete these apps altogether?
A little about me, 32, gay, single guy and using gay dating apps to excess. I have horrible luck meeting guys on these apps yet I'm still on them at any given moment. I just learned about PIED in the last week, so this is quite new and I'm still getting my head around accepting that I'm addicted to porn. Plus I think I'm more addicted to the apps than porn itself.
I use these apps because I'm single and feel lonely. I want to meet and date someone but as an introvert, apps are my go-to. Plus I don't want to hitting on a straight guy at the grocery store, or gym or work or whatever because of the risk of getting beaten up or accused of sexual harassment.
So if I give up porn, what happens when a guy sends me his nudes? Have I broken my pledge? How will that affect the rebooting of my brain?
And if I give up PMO but meet up with this guy, have a nice date and eventually have sex, is that breaking the "MO" part in "PMO"? Again, how's that gonna affect my brain and recovery from PIED?
Or am I just not ready to date yet so should I just delete these apps altogether?