From my understanding, at the time when there is no fast internet porn, some of guys has developed that sexual taste due to their childhood experiences and extreme parenting. If I am that type of guy, quit porn might not be the ultimate answer for rebooting to the natural sex? Am I right?
I remember when I was a kid, I had some weird thoughts about controlling, dominating and destroying. I didn?t have access to porn at that time. When I went to college, I frequently used escalated porn to fill my holes( I guess i didn?t feel disgusting at the first time I watched those porn.
Now I am 31 years old, married, I ?ve been absent from PMO for 45days, no fantasy at all, in a deep flatline in daytime, but I experienced 3 wet dreams all related BDSM in the night. I think I can easily quit porn. But for me,I still have doubts on rewiring to the natural sex by just quitting porn, should I see psychiatrist for reversing my BDSM mind? Lots of people think that BDSM is not a type of mental sickness, is that wrong? It really matters a lot to me who really want to experience natural sex with my wife.
I remember when I was a kid, I had some weird thoughts about controlling, dominating and destroying. I didn?t have access to porn at that time. When I went to college, I frequently used escalated porn to fill my holes( I guess i didn?t feel disgusting at the first time I watched those porn.
Now I am 31 years old, married, I ?ve been absent from PMO for 45days, no fantasy at all, in a deep flatline in daytime, but I experienced 3 wet dreams all related BDSM in the night. I think I can easily quit porn. But for me,I still have doubts on rewiring to the natural sex by just quitting porn, should I see psychiatrist for reversing my BDSM mind? Lots of people think that BDSM is not a type of mental sickness, is that wrong? It really matters a lot to me who really want to experience natural sex with my wife.