Rebooting is not enough

Majority of ppl with PIED will never heal. It hs been 4 years ever since I last visited this site and people's relapses hv gotten worse. This is bcz some ppl come to this site specific to mislead. For 2years I tried to go cold turkey on P but i ws relapsing all through out. But then I met a girl who was understanding two years back who helped me rewire and now I hv a normal sex life. I even stayed off P bcz I was accountable to a real person.  Many ppl will never heal bcz it is impossible but bcz of wrong approach.  I mean how in the world do u think a person in his twenties can go more than 500days without a woman bt then say he wants to be "normal".  Rebooting alone is a recipe for a relapse! Or should I say a recipe for binge?

Majority of ppl with PIED will never heal.

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That's not true. Here are thousands and thousands of success stories: https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/rebooting-accounts/rebooting-accounts-page-1/

It hs been 4 years ever since I last visited this site and people's relapses hv gotten worse.

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Based on what? How do you know? Most members come and go. This site has 16k members, and very few active members now were here years ago.

For 2years I tried to go cold turkey on P but i ws relapsing all through out. But then I met a girl who was understanding two years back who helped me rewire and now I hv a normal sex life. I even stayed off P bcz I was accountable to a real person.  Many ppl will never heal bcz it is impossible but bcz of wrong approach.  I mean how in the world do u think a person in his twenties can go more than 500days without a woman bt then say he wants to be "normal".  Rebooting alone is a recipe for a relapse!

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Not sure what you're talking about "wrong approach." We specifically give advice that many successful rebooters give, and that is to "rewire" to a real partner. The only reboot approach is to stay away from artificial stimulation. See this page: http://legacy.rebootnation.org/index.php?topic=70.msg370#msg370

"3.You need to, and maybe have to, REWIRE your sexual response to a real life partner."

Rebooting alone is a recipe for a relapse!

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Many have recovered by rebooting. However, the above advice would agree with you that pursuing a real life partner is beneficial.

Let's be a bit more positive.

Nd how long did you reboot before meeting your girl Gabe?

I realize that someone out there might need some meaningful clarity on this matter. So then prove me wrong, yes prove me wrong, if there is someone out there who never had intimacy before PIED and had a servere case but recovered on rebooting alone then tell us your story myb you might help someone. However, I'm still yet to see someone who has been rewiring with a girl for a straight year uninterrupted by porn or breakups and still complaining about what a horrible flatline they have, irrespective of their background.  So this thing of chasing 200+ days thinking it's the ultimate cure, you'll be disappointed when you still not seeing meaningful result. And if not a single person comes forward with their story then I rest my case.

Realbeater said:

I realize that someone out there might need some meaningful clarity on this matter. So then prove me wrong, yes prove me wrong, if there is someone out there who never had intimacy before PIED and had a servere case but recovered on rebooting alone then tell us your story myb you might help someone. However, I'm still yet to see someone who has been rewiring with a girl for a straight year uninterrupted by porn or breakups and still complaining about what a horrible flatline they have, irrespective of their background.  So this thing of chasing 200+ days thinking it's the ultimate cure, you'll be disappointed when you still not seeing meaningful result. And if not a single person comes forward with their story then I rest my case.

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Prove you wrong? There are THOUSANDS of rebooting accounts here in this forum alone. How about you go read every last one of them from beginning to end and then you will have your answer.  I assure you that if you are truly serious about finding your answer then your resolve will be a million times stronger than anyone in here's resolve to prove something to you.

Prove you wrong? Dude get over yourself, and while you're at it GTFOH with your negative nonsense. Get 30 days worth of reboot into your system so you have enough testosterone reserves in you to stop talking like a b!@ch!

Wow! This fool Realbeater registered on this forum YESTERDAY and now he's some friggin expert of what can or can't be accomplished by Rebooting?

RealBeater    if you dont think this site will work for you  no one is forcing you to stay  but perhaps you might want to read some more if  you might learn something    It is not going to help everyone  but  if it helps some  than  all the better

  cheers

    Post often it helps me it helps you

Clearly I'm causing a bit of a stir in here and that can't be positive for the forum so I'll stay out of it and I was not planning on hanging around anyway.  But I can tell you this, when I first saw those long rebooting stories l felt hopeless on how ppl cn go that long and not heal.  But when I was healed within six month with my girl then I knew exactly what was wrong with those guys. I know probably many of you hate me on my comments and I don't blame you coz I also never wanted to hear that I needed a girl to heal (I feared exposing myself).  As for someone who needs real help, then never be discouraged by those long rebooters coz those guys don't do much rewiring. (don't get me wrong coz I did hv countless fails with my girl too but in the end it gives u real success not just morning wood)