michealroyjones
New Member
Hey guys - I found this site and I love that there are folks dedicated to helping others with issues that are difficult to talk about with others.
I've been masturbating for ~20 years and have been watching porn on and off (roughly 2-3 times each week) and jerking off for the last 15 or so years. Recently I noticed that while I have no problem getting an erection when I'm with my wife, the minute I change positions i.e. try to penetrate her, I lose my erection.
I noticed that it did depend on how long ago I masturbated. So, I usually stop masturbating at least 3-4 days before we'd have sex. But it still does cause problems now and then i.e. I get an erection and while we're in the process of foreplay, I just lose the erection.
I realise some of it may even be from work related stress and anxiety, but I'm just wondering if this falls into the category of Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction and would it be helpful to lay off porn for a while. The reasons I'm a bit skeptical are:
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[*]It's a very recent problem i.e. last few months. Lots of stress at work as well, could that be a reason?
[*]I haven't been to the gym in a year, this can never be good
[*]The longest I've been without porn recently was 2 weeks when I was traveling and I do recall masturbating 11 times in 4 days after I returned (wife was away at the time). Does this count as addiction?
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Any inputs will be appreciated. Porn causing dysfunction sounds strange to me, if I can get hard during porn, surely that doesn't mean my organs aren't working?
EDIT: Age for context - I'm 33.
I've been masturbating for ~20 years and have been watching porn on and off (roughly 2-3 times each week) and jerking off for the last 15 or so years. Recently I noticed that while I have no problem getting an erection when I'm with my wife, the minute I change positions i.e. try to penetrate her, I lose my erection.
I noticed that it did depend on how long ago I masturbated. So, I usually stop masturbating at least 3-4 days before we'd have sex. But it still does cause problems now and then i.e. I get an erection and while we're in the process of foreplay, I just lose the erection.
I realise some of it may even be from work related stress and anxiety, but I'm just wondering if this falls into the category of Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction and would it be helpful to lay off porn for a while. The reasons I'm a bit skeptical are:
[list type=decimal]
[*]It's a very recent problem i.e. last few months. Lots of stress at work as well, could that be a reason?
[*]I haven't been to the gym in a year, this can never be good
[*]The longest I've been without porn recently was 2 weeks when I was traveling and I do recall masturbating 11 times in 4 days after I returned (wife was away at the time). Does this count as addiction?
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Any inputs will be appreciated. Porn causing dysfunction sounds strange to me, if I can get hard during porn, surely that doesn't mean my organs aren't working?
EDIT: Age for context - I'm 33.