FlacidMan5000
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Hey all.
I watched Gary Wilsons TED talk about 4 years ago and it hit me like a ton of bricks, Then I watched everything I could find, including Gabe's videos and I it became painfully clear that I had completely screwed myself up with porn from my early teens. We got fast internet quite early in my household and I had my own computer in my bedroom. I'm sure you can figure out the rest
I've tried rebooting a number of times on my own, looking at forum posts and watching videos but never really sharing my problems with anybody. Needless to say, that didn't work. I think the best I did was around 25 days and then I relapsed and felt so worthless that I just went back to my usual routine of PMO every couple of days, even if I knew it was wrong.
Regarding my issues with real sex, In my mid 20s I developed anorgasmia, I could last forever... (Yay.. Stamina.. lol) And while this would impress some girls they would usually start getting concerned that I didn't find them attractive because I couldn't actually finish. Now in my early 30s that has changed into full blown ED. Even though for the past 3 years i've tried my best to keep my porn use to an absolute minimum its still had that much of an effect on me, which shows you just how damaging it is. Of course i've never been able to hold down a relationship for any meaningful amount of time, and I work a deadend job that I hate, but which pays my bills.
I'm honestly done with this shit. I've lost so much of my life to this fucking addiction.
So here I am, This time I'm going to reboot, and I fucking mean it.
I've come clean about my porn issues with two of my closest friends (very awkward conversations), showing them Gary and Gabe's videos totally blew their minds and had them thinking about their own porn use. I've explained to them that i'm rebooting and I need to be held accountable for my actions. They check in with me multiple times a day to make sure i'm good and that I'm not thinking about using. And they are happy to either come hang out or go out somewhere with me to take my mind off things.
I'm currently on Day 6:
Today I woke up with morning wood for the first time in probably 5 years. After that subsided my labido has dropped through the floor, nothing going on from the waist down at the moment. As far as the rest of my body, I've already had a couple of cases of insomnia over the past few days and today I woke up with a headache and generally feeling quite on edge and shakey which has continued throughout the day. So clearly there is some neurochemical battle going on inside my head at the moment. Which being objective about things is a good sigh, at least something is changing. Mood wise I'd say i'm a 4 out of 10 at the moment.
Thats all for now folks.
I watched Gary Wilsons TED talk about 4 years ago and it hit me like a ton of bricks, Then I watched everything I could find, including Gabe's videos and I it became painfully clear that I had completely screwed myself up with porn from my early teens. We got fast internet quite early in my household and I had my own computer in my bedroom. I'm sure you can figure out the rest
I've tried rebooting a number of times on my own, looking at forum posts and watching videos but never really sharing my problems with anybody. Needless to say, that didn't work. I think the best I did was around 25 days and then I relapsed and felt so worthless that I just went back to my usual routine of PMO every couple of days, even if I knew it was wrong.
Regarding my issues with real sex, In my mid 20s I developed anorgasmia, I could last forever... (Yay.. Stamina.. lol) And while this would impress some girls they would usually start getting concerned that I didn't find them attractive because I couldn't actually finish. Now in my early 30s that has changed into full blown ED. Even though for the past 3 years i've tried my best to keep my porn use to an absolute minimum its still had that much of an effect on me, which shows you just how damaging it is. Of course i've never been able to hold down a relationship for any meaningful amount of time, and I work a deadend job that I hate, but which pays my bills.
I'm honestly done with this shit. I've lost so much of my life to this fucking addiction.
So here I am, This time I'm going to reboot, and I fucking mean it.
I've come clean about my porn issues with two of my closest friends (very awkward conversations), showing them Gary and Gabe's videos totally blew their minds and had them thinking about their own porn use. I've explained to them that i'm rebooting and I need to be held accountable for my actions. They check in with me multiple times a day to make sure i'm good and that I'm not thinking about using. And they are happy to either come hang out or go out somewhere with me to take my mind off things.
I'm currently on Day 6:
Today I woke up with morning wood for the first time in probably 5 years. After that subsided my labido has dropped through the floor, nothing going on from the waist down at the moment. As far as the rest of my body, I've already had a couple of cases of insomnia over the past few days and today I woke up with a headache and generally feeling quite on edge and shakey which has continued throughout the day. So clearly there is some neurochemical battle going on inside my head at the moment. Which being objective about things is a good sigh, at least something is changing. Mood wise I'd say i'm a 4 out of 10 at the moment.
Thats all for now folks.