Okay, so here we go.
I am 19 years old, male, straight, and have been masturbating to porn since the age of twelve. I got into it because a friend of mine talked about masturbating and how awesome it was, so I had to try it.
Honestly, it seemed harmless.
Well, until my tastes started to change.
I stopped even trying to get off to just any old porno. It had to be asians, or blacks, bondage and ultimately out of my sexual orientation. Which was super confusing. I could never understand why I could get off to gay/bi porn, but I could never find a man attractive in real life. I am thinking that I was just searching for new things to get off after I fucked up my brain. Well, these tastes have to go.
More than that, though, I want my dick to get hard for sex! I find it so weird that you actually can desensitize yourself to sex. When I picture sex in my mind, I get so excited and want it. Actually I want it all the way to the bedroom until, lo and behold, the guy doesn't want to get up. Even after all of the teasing and touching that led to the bathroom, I am still not into it.
At first, I blamed this on my inability to live in the moment and thought I was just so anxious I was not even thinking about sex anymore, but my anxiety. So, I got into meditation pretty hard. ED was like the rabbit hole of self help for me.
Then I found yourbrainonporn.com and my eyes were opened. I stopped for a month twice now, and now here we go again.
I'm going to do it in this time. At least, I think I will. I get so worried that I'm losing my ability to get a boner when I am a few weeks in. It is scary as shit. So, I tested my dick so much both times that at one point I tested, lost willpower, and PMO'd. Horrible. I did the big no-no, too. I masturbated twice in one day and kept doing so for a bit until I decided to stop again.
I don't think I was serious enough at the time, though. Now I am ready, though. This is it. 150 days, and then, hopefully, forever after that.
I will try to make this a little fun, because, come on. Why not? And if I get into a relationship within 150 days, I may have to have sex. I would rather not orgasm this whole time, because I feel deep in my soul that that is the best way to go about it, but if I am three months in and I am not having my ED problem anymore, I am not going to hold back. What a shitty run-on sentence that was. Ugh, gross. Whatever.
I am going to try to avoid social media and the risque parts of the internet. I will definitely have to watch my back on stumbleupon and the like.
I will try to read through some other journals, because I think it sounds like fun. Oh, and when my dick goes seme-perma-limp when I flatline, I will probably need the reassurance that a lot of people go through this shit.
Anyway, day two complete. Here is to 148 more. Cheers.
I am 19 years old, male, straight, and have been masturbating to porn since the age of twelve. I got into it because a friend of mine talked about masturbating and how awesome it was, so I had to try it.
Honestly, it seemed harmless.
Well, until my tastes started to change.
I stopped even trying to get off to just any old porno. It had to be asians, or blacks, bondage and ultimately out of my sexual orientation. Which was super confusing. I could never understand why I could get off to gay/bi porn, but I could never find a man attractive in real life. I am thinking that I was just searching for new things to get off after I fucked up my brain. Well, these tastes have to go.
More than that, though, I want my dick to get hard for sex! I find it so weird that you actually can desensitize yourself to sex. When I picture sex in my mind, I get so excited and want it. Actually I want it all the way to the bedroom until, lo and behold, the guy doesn't want to get up. Even after all of the teasing and touching that led to the bathroom, I am still not into it.
At first, I blamed this on my inability to live in the moment and thought I was just so anxious I was not even thinking about sex anymore, but my anxiety. So, I got into meditation pretty hard. ED was like the rabbit hole of self help for me.
Then I found yourbrainonporn.com and my eyes were opened. I stopped for a month twice now, and now here we go again.
I'm going to do it in this time. At least, I think I will. I get so worried that I'm losing my ability to get a boner when I am a few weeks in. It is scary as shit. So, I tested my dick so much both times that at one point I tested, lost willpower, and PMO'd. Horrible. I did the big no-no, too. I masturbated twice in one day and kept doing so for a bit until I decided to stop again.
I don't think I was serious enough at the time, though. Now I am ready, though. This is it. 150 days, and then, hopefully, forever after that.
I will try to make this a little fun, because, come on. Why not? And if I get into a relationship within 150 days, I may have to have sex. I would rather not orgasm this whole time, because I feel deep in my soul that that is the best way to go about it, but if I am three months in and I am not having my ED problem anymore, I am not going to hold back. What a shitty run-on sentence that was. Ugh, gross. Whatever.
I am going to try to avoid social media and the risque parts of the internet. I will definitely have to watch my back on stumbleupon and the like.
I will try to read through some other journals, because I think it sounds like fun. Oh, and when my dick goes seme-perma-limp when I flatline, I will probably need the reassurance that a lot of people go through this shit.
Anyway, day two complete. Here is to 148 more. Cheers.